First off, you have to define what stupid is to you. I define it as something done or said that makes no sense, that has no basis in reality, and/or is intellectually dishonest.

If you follow my definition, then there are many people you would never speak to. I prefer it that way. I like having a stimulating conversation with someone who has a clue rather than attempting to convince someone how not to be stupid.

I also suggest that you stick to topics that are more universal, instead of specific. The only time I would get into a specific talking point is when the other person knows what I am talking about and has a basis of comprehension and comparison. Otherwise, the whole effort is pointless. For example, would you talk about chess with someone has does not know how to play the game and, moreover, is not even willing to learn how? I certainly would not. If they are willing to learn, then that changes the whole dynamic.

I would also refrain from using the superlative of stupid people. Many people are ignorant of facts, but are fairly intelligent. The only issue is awareness, not a lack of comprehension or intentional closed-mindedness.

Ultimately, stopping yourself from getting into arguments with "stupid people" is a choice you have to make. You have to know when to pick your battles. Most often, I refrain from speaking to anyone until they give me something to talk about, whether it is an active comment or a passing observation. However, if it is unintelligible or asinine, then I either ignore them or give a quick retort.

I would also discern the difference between an argument and a discussion. These two points are often confused and mixed up. In this situation, an argument occurs when all parties are beginning to get emotionally wrapped up and the situation melts down. At that point, there is not much to be gained, except for the experience of recognizing when to bow out of the conversation and go elsewhere.

Finally, find yourself a core group of people to discuss various issues and points. If you are having constructive discussions, then an argument becomes a moot point. Or, simply do not allow yourself to be baited into an argument. Many people love to do that because it gives them a sense of power. Take away that power by not giving them what they want, an argument.

That just about covers it.

Alan W.