How do you visit animals shelters and similar places without feeling sad when you leave?

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By zzzoozz



For me I try to concentrate on what I have done to help rather than my hopeless inability to change everything

In a dream world I would take all the animals back to my great big house with my acres of land and we would all have great lives. Sadly in my real world this will never happen but that does not stop me feeling guilty.

I am not feeling sad about the animals in the shelter but my Inability to help them all. To stop this sad feeling I have to think what I have done, I might have made a donation or bought something at the shelter shop. This has made a difference although maybe only a small difference I have still helped.

How are you helping just by visiting

Once we are capable of being able to visit animal shelters without feeling guilty it can be a very rewarding experience for us.

Many people and families these days do not have the luxury of the time or space to have a pet. An afternoon at the shelter can help the family interact with animals and also helps the animals by the donations and the interactions which you have with them whilst you are there.


Say Hello to Spud

This is Spud, he is an 11 month old Spaniel something cross. He is my pet Dog that I adopted from the Dogs Trust. We have a mutually beneficial relationship, he needed a home and I wanted a pet. He is my second rescue dog the first was a great companion for 14yrs.


This is one version of an old saying

Two men were walking toward each other on an otherwise deserted beach. One man was in his early 20s, the other obviously much older. The smooth damp sand was littered with starfish, washed onto the land during high tide. They were stranded there when the tide ebbed. Thousands of starfish were doomed to die in the warm morning sun.

The younger man watched the older man pick up starfish one at a time and toss them back into the ocean, giving them a chance to survive. The young man thought, “Why is he doing that? How foolish. He can’t save them all.”

As they came near one another, the younger one felt compelled to point out to the older man the futility in his action. “You know,” he said, “you can’t save them all. Most of them will die here on the sand. What you are doing really won’t make any difference.” The older man studied the young man for a moment. Then he bent down, picked up a starfish and tossed it into the water. He smiled at the young man and said, “It made a difference to that one.” Then he walked on, picking up starfish and tossing them back into the sea.

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glassvisage  says:
17 months ago

Thank you for including the starfish story! I love that story, and it works well with this Hub. I always try to remember when I visit shelters how many animals my family has saved; all of our cats have been shelter cats, and I try to make donations as often as I can. Thanks!

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crazybeanrider  says:
17 months ago

A lovely story about the starfish, I hadn't heard that one before. It is very hard for me to go to shelters because I want to scoop them up and love them all. You have a great hub here. Every little bit helps. When I lived in Virginia I used to go to the SPCA and volunteer my time playing with the animals. It was hard though. But I did it for them not me. So I had to look at it that way. I live in a rural area now and they have one shelter for several counties and I offered to do the same and they declined. Anyway Great hub, and SPUD is adorable.

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Magick Stories  says:
3 months ago

I understand the frustration and hopelessness of shelters being a kill in 5 days. After all, why bother if I die in a few days. I can't believe anyone would say no to interacting with the animals. It's how we learn to trust humans and make great companions from the interacting and playfulness. It's what is missing in a system that is clinically ready to put us down rather than love us.

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