Ok, this particular guy you gave your real cell phone number and not one you made up so that he will leave you alone. For some reason, you really would like to hear from this guy and maybe have a dinner and a movie rendezvous to get to know each other better. He gave you his business card, but you are not a desperate person and is rather cute, so you pledged silently not to call him. After all, you do not want to appear overbearing. What did mother tell you about the old fashion game of playing hard to get. She said that it still might just work, so no calling him. He has your cell phone number.  So he will either text or call you. Right?

To put womens' minds at ease, these hints will let you know when a guy will call you. If he gave you his business card , he probably will not call you. Why? Because he may just be wanting to expand his business and you looked like you were not all that handy around the house and that you may need help with fixing a thing or two. If he had asked for your telephone number and actually wrote it down, then the likelihood is that he will call you. After meeting him, as there are still shy guys out there, while departing it is alright to smile and make the hand to face gesture like a telephone telling him to call you as you show off your beautiful smile.

However, if he does not call you within the next few days, then he probably will not call you. If a guy wants to call you he will call you that same night that you met him of the first weekend that comes up after the two of you have met. He will not call you two to three months later because more often than not, he would have lost that little piece and paper that he wrote your name and number on. Also, if the question did not come up and he has not called, the guy maybe was married and just happened to meet you on the cereal isle while you were deciding on the sugary cereal or the healthy cereal.

Times have changed and women are more liberal in contacting guys and some may even ask for his cell phone number. These women are not about to play the hard to get game because another girl may be a bit bolder and get to bring him home. But men are not as bland as you would think them to be. Even if you get the cell phone number and call him up for a night out, he may make up a lie that he is busy or that he has to go somewhere else and will be busy for the rest of the year. A turn off for a woman is much more mortifing than for a man because men get used to being rejected as they are thought to be the initiator in most cases. The woman rejected may seek a monastery and devout herself to an overseas feed the hunger missionary effort.

If you are asked for your cell phone number from a guy who seems interested, just give him your number and then move on with your day and with your life if you do not hear from him. You were doing quite well before you met him and he was doing quite well before he met you and there is no law saying that he has to call you. Be satisfied that you were interesting enough to be approached and continue on whatever was your intended route.

Take note of this fact; if a guy is interested in you, he will not waste any time hooking up with you. If you were smart enough to hint that you were single and available without sounding too desperate then good for you. Just like everything that is marketable and you are marketing your personality, if he thinks that guys are clamoring to get to know you then he will be sure to call you right away. The law of supply and demand can work in a relationship availability niche also. Any action that he takes will be within the same day, or the same week, or the same weekend. If he does not call you within those times, then you were just an interesting person he met randomly and happened to come in contact with.

You will know that a guy will call by his proclivity to be proactive. Even the shy guys, in matters of the heart will act quickly if interested.He would not waste anymore time trying to figure out where you have been all of his life. If you can not stop wondering if he will call, then you must put a suitable replacement of him in your life. A good replacement would be someone that will truly love you back and that is a pet. Caring for a pet and taking care of another life will help you to get over the guy should he never call. If caring for yourself is a job in itself, then use your time to improve on the quality of your life with charitable services in addtion to a livelihood. If he did not call, maybe a relationship with the guy was not meant to be.

Whatever,you decide to do about the no-call, do not cry or feel sad. You never really got to know the guy and he may be the the guy who the people in Antartica thought was Big Foot. Remember that everything happens for a reason. If him calling you is not happening then there is reason why he did not call and your personality can not be the reason. Why? Because he never got to know how intelligent, caring and awesome a person you are. Don't sweat the small stuff and move on and keep moving on until you meet the one who will call you on to make the ultimate relationship connection.