The Law of Attraction is a Magickal, New Age, and Self Help concept that like things are attracted and drawn to each other's sphere of influence or even aura (bio-energetic fields). The key to this concept begins with just about the only things any one person has control over--themselves. While these words may seem simple or even uncomplicated the process of honing or tuning your own energies into being similar to something you want to attract is a time consuming process.

In any kind of work where we are trying to get something, we must take special care to define exactly what we want. The addage of making a list of the qualities of the perfect person for you does apply here. We must think a little on the broad side when making these kinds of choices though, I'm really not sure one could attract a 34-29-36 measured person simply by defining it in a list. When we are looking at who this perfect person is, we must also be thinking of what is best or for the greater good of us. We might even want to think of what kinds of qualities we are missing in our lives and see if we could try to balance ourselves out.

This first part was the easy part! Once you have a list...and it is ok to go back and make revisions...we must then find ways in which we ourselves can match what we seek. We can only ever attract things that are similar to us, so in order to attract someone different than who you are, we must begin to explore how to change ourselves. These are not will nilly changes nor changes you make because someone expects you to change. If you would like someone who is focused on their health and fitness, you must find that quality within yourself and work with it. If you want someone who can be romantic, you must get in touch with your romantic side. If you want someone with cheerfulness, you must learn to control your inner critic and get out there and have some fun. If you need someone more disiplined in your life, again you must learn to hone those skills and tools in your own life. Whatever we put out into the Universe returns to us, even if we are putting out these thoughts, feelings, or "vibes" unconsciously. This is not an impossible task to make internal changes, but it is one that takes time and refinement of the qualities you wish to bring into your life. When we life changes of this kind of nature, we must be careful we are doing out of our own self-love.  We must keep asking ourselves why we want these qualities in our life and if those qualities truly reflect who you are.  There is little point in making changes you don't wish to continue once the goal of finding a girl or boyfriend is complete...in a way it would be like doing false advertising. 

The Law of Attraction is very real and can work very quickly, but we must always be sure we want we ask for!!