Having a long and lasting relationship can really be hard. You keep the fire burning in your relationship you need learn how to feed it and keep the flame going strong. How to to that can be as simple as building a fire. Explaining how to build a fire and a relationship are pretty much the same when you apply the method to build the fire and building your relationship. You have to keep feeding the fire if you want it to keep going and that holds true to your relationship as well. I am going to show you step by step how to build a fire and how to apply it to your relationship. What I share with you is true in my life but might be some what different in your life.

The first thing you need to build a fire are a few really nice since pieces of wood that can last long and keep the fire strong. In your relationship this would be something you have in common with your love interest something strong in both of you that will last a long time and keep you bonded with each other like Religion and Moral Values.The wood can be different types like, pine, pinon, oak, chestnut just as long as the pieces are big and strong. Some wood last a lot longer that others depending on how old and how you the wood is, but it can work together for some time if one piece is big enough for the other. In a relationship race is a big factor but if you strong enough you can last a long time.

The second thing you need to build a fire is together a bunch of smaller pieces about 2 or 3 times more than your bigger pieces enough to cover the big logs to ignite the fire in the big logs. The same thing goes in a relationship. Once you have your big important common bond you have to surround it with a lot of smaller bonds. Things that you do will build these smaller bonds, things like going out with friends together, things with family and special things together like going to the movies or to concerts. All these things help you build that fire in your relationship.

The third and needed in build a fire the small pieces of wood. You need to gather about 5 times the amount of small wood that you did the larger wood you used to surround the Big logs that you gathered to build your fire. In a relationship you need to do a lot of small things for each other that starts that fire so you get enforce the Big things that keep you together and you relationship flame going strong. As time goes you will have gather tons of little things and you flame will keep on going.

The last thing you need to gather is kindling's or really small pieces of wood to start help start this fire. You need lots of these small pieces and you need to put them groups all around and in you small pieces you gather so they can start burning so, they can make even the big pieces ignite so they can light the Big Logs. In a relationship its all the little things that you do that make all the Big things you do together burn our hearts together.

Finally the most important thing to start a file is a spark this spark happens when you rub two pieces of wood together and the more the rub the hotter it gets until finally a spark ignites and starts burning the really small pieces of wood that then start the bigger pieces witch then start the Big log and before you no it you have build yourself a real fire. This fire can last as long as you remember to keep feeding it wood. You have feed it the same way you build it. You put pieces big or small depending what is need when you feed the fire. If the fire is almost out you got to feed it small pieces because if you put in a Big Log or too large a piece of wood you will smother the fire and the flames will dye. You have to take a look at the fire and feed it what it needs either a bunch more small pieces or just maybe a medium size log that will keep that flame going. You always have to keep the fire in control because if you don't the fire can get out of control and you will have a forest fire and cause all sorts of heated problems. This is true in a relationship is well you have to feed your love accordingly because if you don't your love for each other will either die, get smothered or go out of control and the fire will end or have to be put out. If you have true love your fire will last forever, with family and friends there will be not end to love and your fire will last forever.

This is the way I see it and as you get older in life you start to realize that its not easy to keep your fire going but if you work at slow and look at the Big Picture your love for each other can last and last. Just thing it took to sticks rubbing against each other to start a fire just like it took you and your loved one to do the same. That is how to Build a Fire.