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How to Encourage a Toddler to Eat

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By Lisa HW



Most toddlers will eat when they're hungry and stop when they're not.   Since they don't "have a lot of time" (have too short an attention span and lots of energy) to sit in one place for too long,  one good way to make sure they eat enough is to serve foods that can be eaten quickly and easily.

Parents of toddlers need to keep a few things in mind even before determining whether a child is eating enough:

1.  Toddlers don't require nearly as much food as many adults believe they do.  They need a well balanced diet, of course, and foods/drinks high in nutrition can help assure they get that without a lot effort. 

2.  Some foods are more appealing to toddlers than others.  Since they like doing things themselves, toddlers enjoy foods they can easily pick up with their fingers and eat.  They also enjoy the "challenge" of having to pick up each one of those (for example) little peas and eating each one.  Besides serving foods that happen to already be in small pieces, cutting other types of food (like bread, cheese, even pasta) into small pieces can make it more appealing to a toddler.

3.  Drinking lots of milk/formula will, on the one hand, offers much needed nutrition to a toddler; but it will also fill him up to the point where he has little interest in eating.  Eliminating a bottle/cup or two, or at least timing particular filling liquids (like milk) so they don't interfere with a child's dinner-time appetite helps.   Serving a small amount of water, milk, or juice with dinner (a very small amount) can help.  Depending on what they're eating, toddlers are often content to eat first and have their drink after.

4.  In spite of enjoying eating small, finger-sized, pieces of food; toddlers are often willing to have a few spoonfuls of foods they like "scooped in" by a parent.   Toddlers aren't toddlers for very long, and it isn't necessarily the time to worry about whether they "sit up and eat their whole dinner".   Although it takes a little more thought and effort, parents may find that "catching" their on-the-go toddler, and offering him a quick spoonful of food that doesn't take too much of his "free time", can be a good way to get a little more dinner into their child.  He can always learn to "sit up and eat" when he's a little more developmentally ready.

5.  Offering foods a toddler particular likes is, of course, more likely to result in his eating well than offering foods with less "toddler-friendly" taste.  Toddlers usually prefer peas and lima beans over green beans (which can be a little bitter).  They often like sweet potatos, carrots, or beets because they're less bitter than some vegetables.  Milder tasting cheese is something they may like more than stronger cheeses.  Fruits, of course, are sweet and usually enjoyed by toddlers.  Sliced bananas can be appealing to toddlers.  So, usually, are fruits in the form of applesauce or commercial "junior" fruits (requiring a spoon and usually a little assistance from a parent).

6.  Since "store bought" "junior foods" are designed to appeal to toddlers, sometimes a child will prefer them more than he prefers some "regular" foods. 

7.  Many toddlers prefer softer vegetables to crisper ones, so boiling fresh vegetables, or else buying canned (with no salt added, if possible) can encourage some toddlers to eat a little more.

8.  Even with the suggestion that parents allow for some "quick spoon-feeding" while a toddler is on the go,  it's worth mentioning that toddlers are sometimes too easily distracted to be interested in their lunch or dinner when something "more interesting" is going on.  The toddler who has small pieces of cheese and a handful of peas on his highchair tray may not be interested in them if he spots a parent or older sibling with a piece of strawberry shortcake, of if the dog is entertaining him at the bottom of the highchair and eating his dropped food.  Eliminate particularly "interesting" distractions when it's time for a toddler to eat.

9. Don't get into struggles over food.  Toddlers are particularly sensitive to someone else attempting to have too much control over things like food.   Toddlers can get their nutrition when parents only serve small-but-nutritious snacks throughout the course of the day, rather than expecting them to sit in one place (x number of times per day) and eat what parents believe are a "whole meal".   Again, toddlers can polish up their eating habits/manners when they're just a little older.  The point, when they're this young, is that the foods they get are nutritious.  In other words, don't make a big deal about food.  It will give a toddler "fuel" for any number of less-than-ideal behaviors associated with meal-time.

10.  Keep in mind that a few peas and carrots are higher quality nutrition than a "giant load" of white rice.  If a toddler seems to prefer his peas and carrots surrounded by some white rice he'll obviously be a little more filled up with the rice.  At the same time, parents shouldn't confuse "just volume" with "adequate nutrition".   Many toddlers may prefer the blander taste of things like white bread or white rice over whole grain, but a small amount of whole grain rice around those peas and carrots is healthier (and lots of a toddler's favorite vegetables mixed in with that small amount whole grain rice will often make it more appealing to a toddler).   

    



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Hendrika profile image

Hendrika  says:
3 months ago

I'm sending my son this one, his 3 year old eat very badly!

Lisa HW profile image

Lisa HW  says:
3 months ago

Hendrika, as far as I've ever seen, unless children are in the minority who are "chow hounds"; most kids three and under aren't the biggest eaters. :)

I have three kids (now grown), and I remember that when they were little it seemed as if the one challenge of each of my days was in figuring out how to get the right balance of the right food into them. :)

rlbwalker profile image

rlbwalker  says:
6 weeks ago

Thanks so much for posting this. I have a three year old picky eater, meaning PB&J and fresh fruit is about all he will eat, but these tips gave me some great ideas. Thanks A LOT!!!

Lisa HW profile image

Lisa HW  says:
6 weeks ago

rlbwalker, thanks. If he's like a lot of kids you only have another few years before he'll eat "like a regular person". LOL

todaysmotherhood profile image

todaysmotherhood  says:
3 weeks ago

Thanks for your post. My daughter is rather picky at food and these may work on her.

missnitaprincess profile image

missnitaprincess  says:
3 weeks ago

I have a 3 year old too who is really picky.I completely agree with #8.My son will not eat if the tv is on or if there are toys in sight. But sometimes the occasional struggle is necessary. If I did not make my son eat his dinner he would never eat. I am a firm believer in you eat what is made for you and I make him eat what is on his plate.But every child is different and I think you have a lot of great suggestions :)

Lisa HW profile image

Lisa HW  says:
3 weeks ago

todaysmotherhood, thank you. None of my three children were very interested in food until they were past six. They got food into them, but I really think part of the problem (besides being toddlers) was just that they were very small children who didn't have big appetites. I know it may be over-simplifying things to say this; but based on children I've known, it looks to me like larger-framed children are often hungrier. :)

missnitaprincess, thanks. In a way, I think there's something kind of normal and healthy about a child who isn't very interested in food. There are children who are almost obsessed with eating, and that isn't always great either. (I've never been a "big food person", myself, and I like to think of it as "not living to eat" but "eating to live".) Still, of course, little kids need to eat - so even those who have "better things to do" eventually have to get nutrition into them. :) It does seem to me that six is when they develop a better appetite. Maybe that's Nature's way of getting them ready for that growth spurt that happens around seven. :)

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