Men do not always carry around tell tell signs that they are married.  If they are interested in you, then of course their marriage has to be top secret.  It is up to you to find out if you are dating a married.  How would you find out if the man you are dating is married?

You have to put your detective outfit on and go onto people seach.com.  Without paying anything at all unless you want access to his public records. the website will give you his name, address and relatives.  If he is not married, most of the time, the listing will only have his name.  If he is married or have been married, along side of his city and state, you will see a female name.  He may tell you that he is divorced then you will have to find another free route to his truth or dare marriage information.

If you notice, married couples always use the word "we" without thinking about the linking term.  If a a man used "we" in a conversation, more often than not, he is referring to his wife.  It is difficult to get out of the "we" way of talking once you get married because everything become shared especially life's adventure.  So if he slips, and say the word we and is not talking or including you, then he is talking about another woman.

There are other free ways to find out if your man is married instead of just asking him, which woud be the right thing to do.  Ask people that he associate with whether or not he is married.  You must ask in an indirect way because guys do not like to mess around in each other's game.  You can make mention of a wife or a girlfriend and then wait to see if the friend of your interested party will volunteer the name of the wife or girlfriend or will so what you would like to hear. 

The bottom line, however, is if you have to be a sleuth about the relationship, then you are working on something that does not have too much loyalty or trust.  If you cannot get a straight answer from your man, then you are in a relationship that does not have any lasting implications.  An open relationship where he tells you if he is married or not is the optimal relationship and will have a good start without any untruths. 

One untruths invariably leads to another and you should not have to be disseminating whether the guy is telling the truth at every turn.  You need to ask him whether or not he is married and if you later find out that he told an untruth, then you need to end the relationship.  The thing about telling something that is untrue is that sooner or later the real truth will eventually show up.  But if you do not want to waste your time on possibly being in a relationship with a flim flam artists, you can use the suggestions made in "How to Find Out If You are Dating a Married Man."