Although you may think getting back Your Ex might be a very difficult thing to do, especially after all the crazy things you have tried... there is still hope. You can still get back with your love but it requires you to have a bit of open mind and willingness to do things a different way.

I know a lot of the experts will advice you to stop doing everything right away.

But I suggest you first Understand the Reasons for the Breakup.

Most people are so emotionally stung up by a breakup that they are incapable of seeing why it happened in the first place. The priority seems to be to get back with the Ex. I understand the fully appreciate how you feel but if you can, for a minute step back and have a look and see why it happened, it will be so much better for you on the long run.

I do not believe that all breakups are bad. Some breakups are good for you. If you are in an abusive relationship I really hope you get out of it and never ever think of getting back with an abusive partner. If you were in a respect less relationship or the one where you have lost your identity, I really hope you do not get back with your Ex.. But the final choice is yours. After thinking over it and if you still feel that you need to get back with your Ex.. Here is what you do.

The next thing that you need to do in getting back with your Ex, is to stop all activities that you are currently trying. Although I cannot list all the things could have tried on your own here are the common mistakes most of the people do in their attempt to get back with their loved one

1. Calling up all of their ex's friends and trying to enlist their support. You may have tried to speak to them and show them how u really care about your ex and desperately want to get back with him/ her.

2. Hanging out in places your ex and his/ her friends hang out in an attempt to meet and talk to your ex... this never works and your ex may end up hating you even more for doing this

3. Calling your ex constantly or text messaging him/her promising to change your self and vowing never to repeat your mistakes again etc...

The list goes on and on. In one sentence ... stop showing your desperation. No one wants to be around a needy person, it is a repulsive character to have so. Stop this behavior right now.

I have included a small video that you can watch on the next few steps that you can take to get back your Ex boyfriend/ Girl friend.

Here is what you need to do next, establish yourself as being ok. This means you should have already stopped showing your desperation. You will have to show that you are perfectly capable of living on your own an if you can pull it off..

Go one more steps and show how you enjoying your single status. Like I said, only if you can pull it off. If you operate from a sense of loss or fear this will not be possible but if you act from a source of confidence, it will pay off like nothing else can.

Then I would suggest you write a note to them to show that you are ok with the break up and it was actually a good thing to have happened. Do not email or use SMS, with the number of messages a person gets these days, the impact will be lost. So use that very old method called letter writing... use a very normal paper and pen and write a simple note agreeing with the Break up. Now that was the first step in getting into a right frame of mind. There are a lot more ideas on how to get your ex back.