How to Kiss with Intoxicating passion

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By Jerrico Usher



This hub is for guys and girls but since I'm a guy I'll write it from the male perspective (everything applies to both sexes)
This hub is for guys and girls but since I'm a guy I'll write it from the male perspective (everything applies to both sexes)


If you like this hub check out the other Passion hubs that will take you deeper down the rabbit hole of love..

Table of Contents of Love topics decoded:

Definition of True Love, The Science of Passion, Intoxicating Kisses(your here now), Decoding Hickeys and cures, Decoding Loneliness, Decode Jealousy, Tribute to Love, Ride through the orgasms of love, Love thought potion, love yourself first then loving anyone else is easy, I see a future in us (song I wrote about love More coming every day!

Decoding Love in all its parts, passion, loneliness, intoxicating kisses, jealousy, and more.. Can be found in these links.. The science of Passion is a very popular one so if you like this one that one is the one I'd recommend you try next.. I'm creating a matrix of love (Decoding Love) but trying to keep each section of the puzzle short and sweet but impactful...


Kissing is more than just a physical act

Kissing is an expression of love and admiration. When you really enjoy someone so much that just looking at them makes your eyes soft, sometimes water up as the emotions of gratitude that their in your life, the kiss becomes an expression of that emotion.

An important component of a good kiss is in the language of the eyes. Most people think you're supposed to close your eyes the whole time you kiss someone but this is not true, nor a good idea. Their is a lot of information transferred in the eyes especially during a really passionate kiss. When times do call for you to close your eyes its usually so you can feel them more on another plane while you experience the endorphin and dopamine rush your brain is flooding your body with. A kiss makes you high.

I used to open my eyes as I pulled away and then keep the stare into her eyes as I absorbed the way she stared back, watched where her eyes went and how they glossed over. All of these things add to the passion of the kiss, and if she keeps looking at your lips then that's a good sign that you're pleasing her and she wants more.




Eye contact is a powerful Pheromone stimulator!
Eye contact is a powerful Pheromone stimulator!
Show her how much you love her taste by indulging in every sensation with your tongue and lips
Show her how much you love her taste by indulging in every sensation with your tongue and lips
When you lose eye contact after a minute make sure you come back to it to show her it’s your loving not her body only
When you lose eye contact after a minute make sure you come back to it to show her it’s your loving not her body only

This video shows exactly what this hub describes

How to initiate a very sexy kiss

Kiss very slow, practically in slow motion, as if you weren't sure what her lips were, or as if you knew the second your lips touched hers you'd hit orgasm, so you have to take it slow to make it last..

Lead her into the kiss with some sensory teasing.

Tell her to close her eyes and using the tip of your tongue trace her lips all the way around, she will want a full on lip kiss to indulge her craving.. Don't give it to her (even if YOU want it)..

Just do it then stop and watch her eyes slowly come open and smile at her teasingly. This opens the channel for silent communication that happens mostly in the eyes and face. Make yourself look valuable to her, make her feel like she has to show patience to get what you have for her, she'll appreciate the work you make her go through (the patience she has to endure) then give her a very gentle tap kiss (just the borders of your lips touch no pressure just a "touch") to tease her again and pull away then put both of your hands on the sides of her cheek and run your fingers up through and past her ears and through her hair (and watch her eyes roll to the back of her head)

Then brush her cheeks with your thumbs and slowly come in for the kiss.. if her eyes are closed stop and stare at her closed eyelids until they come open, then smile and come in slowly, but close your eyes slowly as you come in (psychologically this makes her think the kiss is coming full force this time)..

Still gentle tap then move side to side (again teasing her) then open your lips and taste her top (or bottom) lip and lick it with your tongue...

When you do all this make sure your lips are completely relaxed, the softness of your lips is what will ultimately make it feel sexy and passionate!

Lead into to a real kiss (see video above) and spend a lot of time playing the lick kiss, taste game with her. Change it up a lot, give it variety. Most guys kiss a girl in one way and barely change it up, and this causes her to become bored or at the very least to remember the last guy who kissed her this way and could end up associating this kiss to a poor kiss in her past. Your kiss is also your trademark. You want every kiss she has with you to reek of YOU, so she remembers it.

It's like that kiss on Spiderman the movie, where she asked peter later to turn upside down and kiss her; she remembered it because of how it felt and the uniqueness of it.


Do little things to show her the romantic inside you

Some ideas (things I do):

  • Kiss the corners of her lips after a kiss, come back and kiss her closed lips in the middle, then kiss the corners of her mouth by putting your lips on top and bottom of it and nibble kiss with your lips and brush the top surface of the tip of your tongue on it too. Flatten your tongue flush with your bottom lip and when you kiss her lip use your tongue to stimulate the kiss (its warm and textured and she can feel it)
  • butterfly kisses: Kiss her cheek then sneak your head into a position where your eyelashes will brush across her cheek near her nose and tickle her (she will love it)
  • Kiss and nibble her chin like your sucking on the top of her breasts (this is what visual it may give her) its a sensual thing most guys don't do so it feels fresh and exciting, especially if she has a little cleft chin (most women with these don't like them and when you kiss her like this she feels better about it, because she assumes you think her chin is sexy.. truth is its not ugly, I've known a lot of gorgeous women with cliff chins that look natural, not like john Travolta *smile*)
  • Suck on her tongue (not hard just softly). Take it in your mouth after a French kiss (if she doesn't get the clue tell her to give you her tongue, don't say stick it out, say gimme, and stare into her mouth like you anticipate it, then when you get it in your mouth use the surface area of your tongue as its textured to brush slowly up and down the shaft of her tongue. You will notice (try this) that if you rub the top of your tongue its not that sensitive to the touch but the bottom is much more sensitive, this feels both warm and exciting to her ("licking the bottom of her tongue)
  • While kissing do a top gun technique, turn your tongue so the top of yours (surface area) is rubbing across the top of hers. You can even lick the top of hers backwards (like you'd lick a Popsicle only in her mouth.
  • The ears are very sensitive to kisses and warmth, nibble on the earlobes and work up to the top of her ears, not using your tongue run your top lip across the back of her ear and the bottom lip on the front, then alternate to licking the inside rim of her ear with the tip of your tongue.. Work your way back down to her neck. Most women have an erogenous zone between the neck and shoulder closer to the back of her neck, nibble here with your teeth then kiss it rubbing your tongue across the skin just before pulling back (this gets it wet) then from deep inside your lungs pull hot air and blow ONLY hot air on that spot (she will shiver) then give it a second and blow cold air there, and almost immediately kiss her there again (same as before). The sensation of hot and cold will put a tingle down her spine.


This hub will be updated as I remember more tips to add

For your viewing pleasure I've scoured out some of the best videos on kissing, some are how to's that really drive the information in this hub home with actual examples, others show you the body language that leads to a kiss.

If you have anything you'd like to add I'd love to hear it in the comments box below, just explain it out and I'll add it to this hub when I see it. Happy Kissing, don't forget to check out my other hubs on passion!

DONT DO's (If you have something to add to this list please leave it in the comment box below this paragraph)

Do not:

  • Try to shove your tongue down her throat
  • kiss her hard right away no matter how passionate you feel a woman likes patience and passion but slow and steady wins the race
  • Bite her lip too hard!!!
  • Move fast at first.

Kissing Lesson (This one is cute)

Kissing instructions (funny!)


The Goodnight kiss

Ear kiss WOMEN LOVE THIS (so do us guys!)

If the video above doesnt work

click here to visit the page on youtube. I noticed that after so many plays the video stops playing on my hub but it never stops playing on the page it came from. Ear Kissing

Please report any videos not playing in the comments box below so I can fix it! thanx.

Kissing 101 (reality check)

Girl Next Door Kiss. The Passion Hub has this in the whole video of passion with better quality


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Earth Angel profile image

Earth Angel  says:
4 months ago

GREAT Hub Jerico!! Thank you for sharing!! Thank you on behalf of all women!! Your Hub was a real treat for the senses!! Blessings always, Earth Angel!!

Alexis Froehlich profile image

Alexis Froehlich  says:
4 months ago

Well done!

Time to look for my honey now ;)

prasadjain profile image

prasadjain  says:
4 months ago

Fine, young friend.I was following all these and was successful!

candie33 profile image

candie33  says:
4 months ago

I love this hub,It's something that men should know .Do it right!

Jerrico Usher profile image

Jerrico Usher  says:
4 months ago

Earth angel: Thank you! was my pleasure (and my girlfriends hehe)

Alexis: Thank you! yes definately find him, tell him too to read this hehe

prasadjain: Awesom! Love a good success story!

Candie33: Glad you liked it.. check out the others their just as good :)

Jerrico Usher profile image

Jerrico Usher  says:
4 months ago

This hub is getting 3,000 hits a day and growing! whoohoo! guess its catching on huh?

Brent's Thoughts profile image

Brent's Thoughts  says:
4 months ago

good stuff

Fashionbymarz  says:
4 months ago

Watch out this is how I ended up with 3 kids

Jerrico Usher profile image

Jerrico Usher  says:
4 months ago

LOL true... very true... Birth control is very important to concider before embarking on this fantastic voyage..

djtphn1 profile image

djtphn1  says:
3 months ago

All your videos are here on the page....no gaps...hope that helps....love your new picture, what a scream

teeray profile image

teeray  says:
3 months ago

Wowsers!

Jerrico Usher profile image

Jerrico Usher  says:
3 months ago

:) check out the science of passion one too :)

jaymz profile image

jaymz  says:
3 months ago

Do you believe that kissing well is a trait one is born with or something that one learns.

Jerrico Usher profile image

Jerrico Usher  says:
3 months ago

I don't believe kissing is so much a skillset as it is an expression of how you feel about someone. if your born a passionate and expressive person then it's easier to be a good kisser, I think the skill of kissing can be honed but only if your serious about kissing someone because you like them. They can tell if your kissing them and don't like them. I believe someone can learn to kiss passionately without reading book one because kissing is an excercise in passion. If you kiss bad it may be because you need to learn to "feel" life around you and become passionate about things.

part of a really good kiss is body language so you can fake it if you can manipulate alot of body language but when you dont like love or adore your partner they will be able to tell because of the lack of energy, passion, or immersiveness to your touch..

Born with it? could be but its not about skills its about passion, and expressing it.

LyndseyLou profile image

LyndseyLou  says:
3 months ago

Great! I love all the videos!

Naughty Freak profile image

Naughty Freak  says:
3 months ago

I Think that kissin comes within you and your couple or partner. I think that you are supposed to kiss the way he or she kisses you back and I totally agree don't start a kiss fast ! I once kissed this guy and he started slow and I went fast on it cause I dind't want to get caught by my parents and to me it was a good passionate kiss and yeah that was our first kiss and they always say save the best for last and I said I didn't like tongue kiss that much to my homie and it turned out that I was the one that Tongue kissed him by accident and see he knew that I didn't like french kissing cause he asked me once and I said not really cause once I kissed this guy and he french kissed me and I didn't like it and I was like it depends maybe I didn't like it cause he couldn't work it but I would rather not tongue kiss and he told me " If I do what are you gonna do ? and I told him I guess if I don't do it back quit doin it and if I do do it duh I liked it so keep workin it! and so yeah we almost save the best for last but when I tongue kissed him he wanted to tongue kiss me back even though I know that I did it by accident but we stopped then cause this dude was watchin out for us and then he kinda screamed to let us know that my dad came for me since I was at a game! But yeah Kissing comes within you I liked the kiss and so did he we both worked it !

edson  says:
3 months ago

superb !!!!!!!!!!! i like it

naresh.mandula  says:
3 months ago

yea

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creating new one s kiss my girl friend now

try it now really great love i like this video and i find like this my girl friend ..

Jerrico Usher profile image

Jerrico Usher  says:
2 months ago

huh?

abby.normal profile image

abby.normal  says:
2 months ago

Oh this is quite nice! I hope the e-zone on the neck works for guys too...I shall have to try that out tonight on my fiance ^_^ Great job sir!

Susan Ng profile image

Susan Ng  says:
2 months ago

Kiss very slow... Oh, don't mind me, I'm just taking down notes for my fiance. Haha! :-D Could you also please write a hub about how men like to be kissed? :-)

Jerrico Usher profile image

Jerrico Usher  says:
2 months ago

I suspect men like to be kissed the same way.. I know I like to be kissed with slow, passion.. the key in any kissing is showing the other person you care, and adore them.. regardless of which sex you are. *smiles*

Susan Ng profile image

Susan Ng  says:
2 months ago

I'm having a lightbulb moment... I think you've just led me down the path of enlightenment. Hehe. :-p Seriously though, that was quite insightful and very well said. Thanks. :-)

50cents  says:
2 months ago

hahaha

mamajani profile image

mamajani  says:
2 months ago

before kiss use CLOSE_UP TOOTH PASTE first HAhahahahaha

mamajani profile image

mamajani  says:
2 months ago

love is life kiss is love shine

MOmmagus profile image

MOmmagus  says:
2 months ago

Kiss me, I'm Irish!

asis  says:
6 weeks ago

so sexy

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