To find out if your guy is in love with you, consider the saying: A man's treasure is where his heart is." That being said, if you are the one who has all the ideas about how to have fun or what to do  while he just goes along for the ride, then you need to find out what his true interests are.  It is a great feeling to have a guy to agree with you on fun things to do together and places to go, but should not these times together have shared interests?

If you have a "yes" man and think that everything is fine because he always agrees with you, then he probably is not in love with you.  Why?  Because the guy has to bring something to the relationship.  He has to have some ideas of his own and share them with you so that you can get to know him better.  If he is not talking to you about his interests, then he probably is not in love with you.

Most women will think that it is great to have a "yes" man because of the opposite which is a guy of control.  Control can be an issue with men and a few may lay low on their suggestions because they do not want to be controlling.  There must be a middle area of compromise where interests are shared and truly enjoyed instead of just putting up with activities to come to the ends of the means.  The compromise and the sharing of ideas and interests in a genuine manner reveal that two people are in love with each other in an intimate manner.

Your guy should include you in his sports interests and in the other ways that he uses his time when he is away from you.  It's alright for him to hang out with the guys but wouldn't you like to share in his exurberance when his team wins or when his emotions are peaked because of an anticipated win.  Guys are not that emotional and if a game win excites them, it would be nice to be able to share in the excitement.

  There are other ways that you can prove that you guy is in love with you but the obvious way is to ask does he treasure the time awasy from you than when he is with you?  Are you included in the important moments of his life like the celebration of a promotion or are you the one making coveted moments that does not include him.

A man's treasure is where his  heart is.  Sure, you are spending all of your time with him and loving going places and dining with him.  But where is he when you are out of ideas and have to listen to what he has to say about the relationship.  If he is not talking, then he probably is not in love with you.  You must realize that chocolates and flowers are not a way to your heart.  He must realize that going along with the program to get what he want as an end result is not a way to your heart either.  Knowing if your guy is in love with you involves really getting to know where your guy's treasures are and whether you are the most valuable jewel based on the time and experiences he shares with you.

 You must listen to your guy and not dominate the relationship because you may think that relationships are a "girl" thing.  Believe it or not, men like to be the dominate figure in a relationship.  Aren't they the ones who usually stop calling when they lose interest?  If your guy is still calling you and you are in a relationship, listen to what he has to say about what he treasures and that way you can find out if he is really in love with you.