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How to Make Somebody Love You

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By Stacie Naczelnik



You have met your soul mate, the one and only, now what? Now you have to make him or her fall madly, drunkly, and blindly in love with you. You could use the old-fashioned, outdated method of getting to know the person, dating, and being yourself...letting the love and mutual respect develop naturally, but do you really have the time and patience for that?

In this day and age, only fools let love follow its natural course. You need to act now and manipulate the situation to your advantage, unless you want to end up a forty year old living with your parents. And, don't forget old Aunt Marge pinching your cheeks, asking for the 947,329th time: "When are you going to get married?”


Ten Ways to Make Someone Love You

  1. Be Needy: You have to let this person know you need him or her. Not only will it make your love feel good to be wanted, but you will be able to latch on quickly and get your hooks in nice and deep.

  2. Learn Everything: Dig deep and discover everything about your love. You will amaze him or her with your ability to know this person so well. It will seem uncanny that you can know so much about this person. Some might call it stalking, but it's not like background checks are illegal.
  3. Meet the Parents: You don't even have to wait for your love interest to introduce you. Take some initiative and meet them on your own. You will get to know a lot more about your love through his or her family. Plus, it will make it more difficult for this person not to get into a relationship with you once the family loves you!
  4. Say I Love You: Nothing better lets someone know exactly how you feel than actually telling them. That's right, be honest. You need to get it out in the open, and let him or her know exactly what you expect from the relationship. If your love wants to know which relationship you are talking about, don't hold back: tell this person everything! You can even share the ideas you have for what to name your kids.
  5. Get the Friends: You know #3? Well, the same thing applies here, but focus on the friends. Once you have infiltrated the group of friends, you are in for life. Find out what their interests are, where they hang out, what they do--and make sure you are always around.
  6. Make Your Interests Match: Whoever said that you should be independent was crazy. You need to find out what interests your love. Then, make sure he or she knows that you have the same exact interests! You might have to stay up all night reading up on baseball stats or learn the local theater schedules, but it will be worth it when you have your arms wrapped, dead-tight, around your love.
  7. PDA: Oh yeah...public displays of affection. Get it on as soon as possible. Nothing will endear you to your love more than being all over him or her in public. The moment you see this person, start touching. Do whatever you have to do to get a hold of his or her hand. Hug your love and don't hold those smooches back. If he or she seems a little weirded out about it, don't worry...keep the PDA going strong. It will pay out in the long run.

  8. Get a Tattoo: A huge tattoo. Preferably with a giant heart. Don't forget the most important part: your love's name! For extra points, get a tattoo of his or her face.
  9. Move In: Your love interest might not think it is a great idea at first, but you can work around that. Just start bringing your stuff over and leaving it at his or her place. Get yourself a key- I know you can find a way- and let yourself in whenever you need to. Definitely be sure to create your space at his/her place. And, make sure your picture is everywhere. This way, you won't be forgotten when you aren't around for a little while.
  10. Love Spells: If all else fails, try some love spells. That's right: voodoo it. Wrap that guy or gal around your finger. It's all about the manipulation. Steal some hair, light a candle, and bad karma be damned!

By now you should be happily in the arms of your sweet, true love.

Disclaimer

This article is meant for humorous purposes only. Any resemblance to real actions or police incidents is purely coincidental. No tattoo artists or Wiccans were injured in the creation of this article. If you are susceptible to following bad advice, this is not for you. This article is intended for those with a sense of humor, not for those who feel offended. This advice is not recommended for children, teenagers, adults, or anyone not interested in a prison record.

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maham profile image

maham  says:
2 years ago

ill try it on my bf thanks

MrMarmalade profile image

MrMarmalade  says:
2 years ago

I am too old fashioned

Thanks for the tip

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G-Ma Johnson  says:
2 years ago

Oh dear..what a hoot..Am sure you shocked some of the hubbers Stacie my sweetie..Had me going but soon caught on hee hee ha ha G-Ma :o) hugs

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singpec476  says:
2 years ago

Great hub Stacie if only life was this simple

Princessa profile image

Princessa  says:
2 years ago

I loved it... the disclaimer is great and the advice... well I suppose some people will follow it, as you said at their own risk lol.

RFox profile image

RFox  says:
2 years ago

Now I know what I've been doing wrong all these years. Thanks for straightening me out Stacie. ;)

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Stacie Naczelnik  says:
2 years ago

All of your comments crack me up. The disclaimer brought me a lot of secret pleasure.

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VioletSun  says:
2 years ago

The disclaimer made chuckle! You have a creative mind in order to write a fun hub like this one on love. LOL!

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jsullivan41  says:
2 years ago

HAHA, or anyone interested in a prison record. PRICESLESS! I was reading this thinking to myself "This has got the be a joke...I hope noone actually takes this seriously..." Hysterical.

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compu-smart  says:
2 years ago

You sure have giving me other ways to find true love..........Voodoo lol

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Sylvia Page  says:
2 years ago

Stacie you are brilliant and outrageous!! Loved it beggining to end disclaimer topped it offffff!! Loved the voodoo part and prison record.. Any lessons on voodooism?

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Stacie Naczelnik  says:
2 years ago

Ah...voodoo. We shall see!

Victori profile image

Victori  says:
2 years ago

I've tried all these and I can tell you they come with mixed results. That's to say I was once young, and silly. (Oh to be back there again). I might have added in, propose early in the relationship and move fast if your love replies yes! True love is great, even if short lived. Everyone should try it at least once.

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flread45  says:
2 years ago

To get some one to love you,you need too cook for them.

ang3lz  says:
2 years ago

Gr8 tips! I'll try them on my new buddy.

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huba7  says:
2 years ago

Good tips for those looking for love, i wonder whether this should include the foods/delicacies your lover is fond of, in my culture, the say the love of a man is in his stomach-give him what he enjoys eating most and he will love you more than you would have anticipated. Am a man, and my wife has tried all these tricks on me, and oh yes, it works!

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Stacie Naczelnik  says:
2 years ago

We have a saying like that too: The way to a man's heart is through his stomach.

I certainly hope all of you patting me on the back for giving such good tips have read the entire article, particularly the disclaimer.

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caspar  says:
2 years ago

I don't like to be thought of as acting "needy" but I did hook my husband into our first date by asking him if he would come over and help me fit a bulb in my car's back light, even though I know I could have done it myself!

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FaireMaid  says:
2 years ago

Very funny. Made me laugh out loud.

Cinda profile image

Cinda  says:
2 years ago

stacie!! Thanks to u for your tips and answering my request! Hahhahahaha.. finally I found my 'true' luv!! :P

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Stacie Naczelnik  says:
2 years ago

Not a problem, so glad people are finding love!

nathaniel okonta  says:
2 years ago

how can someone make love

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Stacie Naczelnik  says:
2 years ago

Oh, nathaniel, that's a whole new ball game. Play safe.

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Shirley Anderson  says:
2 years ago

Great article, so funny! I agree with the others...the disclaimer is just perfect! Hilarious, thx for the laugh.

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vreccc  says:
2 years ago

This is a riot!! I read a bit of your posts, Stacie, but have never come across a humerous one, so I took it for real at first. When I read "be needy" I was already thinking of what I was going to comment. "No, no, no... don't do that".

Nice!!!!

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Stacie Naczelnik  says:
2 years ago

Ha ha...just when you had me figured out!

vreccc profile image

vreccc  says:
2 years ago

Never judge a book by its cover and never think you have anybody pegged.

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bheem  says:
2 years ago

ha ha....enjoyed reading..humerous disclaimer

domnic  says:
2 years ago

i have already tried all these tips... but i didn't get a true girld friend... if anybody interested with me please mail me 2 domnicsuresh@gmail.com frnds... i need a Gud Girl Frnd...

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Gerg  says:
2 years ago

Love the disclaimer - and I think it's a hoot that you probably really needed to have that there! I only wish I could say these only happened on Comedy Central.

Oh, and domnic - see my hub "do the opposite of what doesn't work!" The advice being, um, DON'T do these things! Good luck!

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Stacie Naczelnik  says:
2 years ago

Domnic, please listen to Gerg.

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helpdeskian  says:
2 years ago

I have always been a fan of the girls with a Life size headshot of there ex tattoed on the chest! that just screams "i'm Classy" Funny Post!

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Stacie Naczelnik  says:
2 years ago

Well, I'm glad someone gets off on it!

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jimmythejock  says:
2 years ago

Note to self: if you meet any ladies who have read this, run like the wind and don,t stop until you know that they are nowhere near you.....jimmy

LOL, stacie Grrrrrrrrrrreat Hub you got here 80}

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Stacie Naczelnik  says:
2 years ago

Seriously, the comments are more amusing than the actual hub.

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Natashabassett  says:
2 years ago

i tried ALL of these things and I am still single (and 36)

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Stacie Naczelnik  says:
2 years ago

Are you really surprised?

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Mschanl  says:
2 years ago

Great article Stacie, I enjoyed reading it! :)

OTIS  says:
2 years ago

I THINK I WILL TRY IT ON MY BFF'S BOYFRIEND BECAUSE I KNOW THAT HE DOES NOT LOVE HER AND HE IS GOING TO BREAK UP WITH HER ANY WAY

AND I AM A GIRL

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Stacie Naczelnik  says:
2 years ago

Wow, Otis. Um...I think you should...NOT do that. Pretty sure your BFF will become your EF (Enemy Forever).

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Garry Nelson  says:
2 years ago

Hello,

You had me blustering and shaking my head for the first three before I caught on, and I thought you were the idiot. Good stuff.

Garry Nelson

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Stacie Naczelnik  says:
2 years ago

Thanks Garry...I think.

simmi  says:
2 years ago

thanks fr suggestion.

if u need frend e-mail to me

hey_simmi@yahoo.co.in

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Stacie Naczelnik  says:
2 years ago

Hm, Simmi, thanks but I think I will pass.

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Devin Aldine  says:
2 years ago

This made me smile. It's the way for those crazy stalkers... creepy. The scary thing is, as satirical as this was, some people are actually like that.

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Susan Ng  says:
2 years ago

Haha! When I saw tip#1: Be Needy, I knew there was no way on earth you could be serious. :D Just for laughs, though, I'd like to see someone do all these. Hehe...

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Sandilyn  says:
2 years ago

Well you have lots of great points. Just don't change yourself for someone else. You must be yourself for it to work out for the long run. So many relationships are through aways now. I am old fashioned too. Be yourself, fall in love. Then it falls into place. Conquer the world together.

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Bike Web Guy  says:
2 years ago

Stacy you look like such an innocent mom type. You really know how to give great relationship advice. Mix this one with your drinking games and it should be great fun. Maybe invite your new love's parents over for a couple of Drinking games...

Outstanding, I really like the idea about getting to know her parents right away.

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joblot  says:
2 years ago

Hi Stacie,

What fun - my wife would probably think I'd gone mad if I started some of that!! If I could recommend a book that is great for helping relationships between men and women it would be John Grey's "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" - obviously this title has become a cliche, but the messages within are fantastic!

Cheers, Dan

Sarah Marie profile image

Sarah Marie  says:
2 years ago

Hilarious!

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Woody Marx  says:
2 years ago

Ha! Very silly and very funny. And I'm sure many people actually DO these things!

candy  says:
18 months ago

Its good to those in need of love.I think it can work.

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shotgunbanjo  says:
18 months ago

well, loving someone is the best thing to do in your life...both person are in love, it keeps on burning...dont lose let love spread!!!!

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516Ads  says:
18 months ago

Stacie, Your title, How To Make Somebody Love You & your disclaimer spirred my writing.

Additionally your mentioning of being 'needed'. We often hear of people who need, in my opinion the feeling of 'being needed' is extremely important. Too many people feel that they don't matter ... I want to let those people know that they do. From one loving citizen to anpther, keep spreading love. - Best Wishes, David

rachel  says:
18 months ago

I WIL TRY IT.THANKS

ry  says:
18 months ago

this is ridiculous

I wouldnt do half of these things

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twohandtouch  says:
18 months ago

L-O-V-E I-T

Yet another great tongue in cheek look at this wonderful world we call love and dating....

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preciousglow  says:
18 months ago

I think we can make it by gifts of jewelry.

selfhelp  says:
17 months ago

You can't make anyone love you.... everyone has free will choice. Just be who you were ment to be, command what kind of person you want and allow it to happen for you.

tisha  says:
16 months ago

this is stupidness wit people why people does do those thing

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torino70  says:
15 months ago

I think this was a good hub, lots of good things try the next time you feel like youve bitten by the infatuation bug.

solarcaptain(docmike)  says:
15 months ago

hello,

I saw your hub on the best of the hubs and I wanted to see for myself.

Indeed, you deserve to be in that special class of writers. In your article

you have managed to include every foible known to woman, and, reaching into the pickle barrel of satire came up with some real dills. Satire isn't easy top pull off without offending someone. I dunno, is satire even allowed at university now? My life has been too serious and now, thanks to your humor suggestion, I'm just not going to take myself so seriously and--

I give you--3 thumbs up!

Thank you.

Susoo  says:
15 months ago

If you get any attention with using these methods perposely relationship will get last very soon. And can apply these methods only for somebody who dosen't use his inteligance.

Zarm Nefilin  says:
15 months ago

Hilarious.

I lol'ed.

christine_kanayok@hotmail.com  says:
14 months ago

Stacie ....do love exisit in a hated world?

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redpony  says:
14 months ago

You have a great sense of humor, Stasie. It was fun reading, thanks.

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nikitha p  says:
14 months ago

yea nice hub..

...  says:
13 months ago

it was fun readin it but the girl that i love has a bf :(... wt should i do 'cause i love her so much and i told her that i love her

thanks

black_rose  says:
13 months ago

how can u write this bullshit u r crazy wt do u know abt love its easy to say then to do this is worthless

farouk  says:
12 months ago

i strongly agree with point numbner 6

memo  says:
11 months ago

I like ur article but Idont agree with u about making my interests matching hers bnut I'll try .I think its better to be urself and to be normal

minndy  says:
11 months ago

this will not work

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Mandy76  says:
11 months ago

Love this article, funny and candid.  Too bad tons of people actively live thier lives this way...  I guess we can see that from the posted comments. Oh what a mess! Actually operating this way in a relationship can be quite painful for both involved, and OH the drama!

-- seriously people, READ THE STINKIN' DISCLAIMER!!

bess  says:
10 months ago

its sooooo STUPID

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bevy400  says:
10 months ago

Love is not about manipulating some one .Love is a natural progression and if that person is right for you and you for them every thing else will fall in to place.Part of falling in love is the challenges that comes your way on this some times hard and infuriating road.I am crazy in love with my guy and he with me and it was fun getting there.It happened by simply being our selves and taking the time to get to know all about each other.If you have to force someone to fall in love then it wont last.True ever lasting love comes from the heart,what will be will be.

natasha bassett  says:
9 months ago

Natasha bassett is a terrible mother.

D  says:
9 months ago

What do you do if you REALLY fall in love with someone who you've never met, but have been talking online and you swore it could never happen to you, but then it creeps up and you, and for the first time, you know it is more than a crush - it feels different from anything else before. You have the same interests, you would do ANYTHING for her, you love EVERYTHING about her, and you just want to make her happy, BUT she is taken. How do you get her out of your mind when you KNOW you can't?

jhe  says:
9 months ago

..yeah! its good.. funny and hilarious.. hehe! but its a case to case basis.. can't afford to do this, if it is a secret love.. its more on being aggresive.. i think.. aha!

Jayla  says:
8 months ago

I always do that to boys and i am still single (at 47)

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JPSO138  says:
7 months ago

Hahahaha, very interesting. They will certainly work out.

arjun  says:
7 months ago

hey dat was cooooooooooooool............stacie dese ideas work..........thanx babe

yasmin  says:
7 months ago

i love a boy he is yunger that me in a year im not too old im 13 he is 12 I LOVW HEM SO MATCH

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jayb23  says:
6 months ago

I was wondering I try doing what you said Ill be dumped. But it was wonderful. I couldnt stop laughing. Thumbs up for this article

theresa  says:
6 months ago

i learn a lot il try too do my best soo thnhs now i know..... thnks a lot

Jeff Hardy  says:
6 months ago

Dont Be Shy To Say I LOve You To Your Friend

Laura  says:
5 months ago

I really have a massive crush on this boy but he hates me! How can I make sure that he knows that I love him without fooling myself?

Also, everytime I watch Beauty and the beast I feel really lonely and sad.

I NEED HELP PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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ljrc1961  says:
5 months ago

I can't see why so many took this seriously! Very funny stuff.

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Bo Bixbie  says:
4 months ago

Stacie, PLEASE stop calling me. Seriously, I'm embarassed for you.

stacie  says:
4 months ago

we have the same first name and spelt the same! Dont u hate it when people spell your name wrong like, 20 or 30 times!!!! I hate it.

Zee  says:
3 months ago

ha hha, Love spells are not good trust me on that one , It's theperson you doing that on will be crazy, trust , I've that, or the'll be dump , the'lll be stupid , they lose respect for elders, Love spells dont reside , when its gone , that person will hate like hell,

yazii  says:
3 months ago

hi thats yazi, I want 2 say that i'm a girl, and i think that i cant say i love u to a man, he have to say it to me first. but i want the way how to make a man fall in love with girl.plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.

3ala fekra i am 16years old.

ANITA  says:
3 months ago

I know that these tips are great,BELIEVE ME IT HELPS.My guy is totally crazy because of these tips and i dont know what can ever separate us.

intelligent  says:
3 months ago

its rubbish & reading it is a waste of time

key  says:
3 weeks ago

this article on making someone fall in love with u is stupid and also gives tips on "faking it"

the best way to make someone really fall in love with u is to really just be your own natural self and when u do,u will gain so much of that person's respect

key  says:
3 weeks ago

and also the part about GETTIN A TATTOO is the worst piece of advice.who wrote this???!

it is never intelligent to get a love's name's tatted on your body b/c u will never know just how and u and your gf/bf will be together and if ever the realtionship spilts,u will regret having their name on u especially if this person moves on and finds someone else.while they have found a new interest you're gonna look quite silly and struck while their name is printed on ya..ya know

fatima  says:
2 weeks ago

love is true and you cant stop loveing keep going on

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camlo  says:
2 weeks ago

I'm still laughing ... Love the 'meet his parents' thing, then do the same with his friends.

jasmine wilson  says:
9 days ago

I was looking at this web site because i wanted to know how to get my baby day back but am trying to get him to see that i love him but it seems to not work and all i want is us to be togeather as a family i dont want him to leave me i want him to be with me so an telling u that i need some help bad all i want is me and him and my kids to be togeather so can u please help me please for its to late.

AHLAM FARAJ   says:
8 days ago

I WISH TO PUT MORE INFORMATION ABOUT THIS SUBGECT

sergej  says:
5 days ago

hay everyone from around this fabulous globe.

i will tell you a story about me,

i am now a 26 years old gay guy from slovenia, and since i was 16 yes that is right for 10 years im in love with one guy from my school, we were a bit of friends, but nothing special, but im still thinking about him and everything, its like being obssesed, but i cant help it.

im really a romantic person, so its all about candels and roses for me.

well anyway, im not having big contacts with this person, but were friends on FB and so we are being updated with eachother.

anyways

i dont even know if he is gay. after shool he went to work and study in another country, and so did i, for few years, and i met millions of people, but i cannot start a new relationship with anyone, because i am comparing everyone with him, and nobody is good enough.

so im still single.

i want him or at least i want to let go, but i just cant.

and dont tell me to forget him, because im trying to do that for the last decade, and its obviously not working.

anyway, he is now living in australia, i have never seen him with a girl, some of my friends are telling me that nobody has ever seen him with a girl,

so im susspecting that he could be gay.

but how to find out, and then how to act that he would at least be my friend.

i have to at least hear him.

if you have any suggestions please let me know.

thanks

sergej.jezernik@gmail.com

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