To make  your boyfriend obey you, first you have got to get him  to listen to you.  There must be a confidence about you that makes him want to listen to what you want to say. Be wary of your boyfriend if he thinks that you are just a good time with nothing to say. There must be a reason that he likes you other then your looks or your good times together.

The key to getting your boyfriend to obey you is to have something of interest to say. Do not be superficial in being concerned so much with what you look like on the outside with hair and makeup otherwise when he speaks to you that is all he will see. Your boyfriend needs to realize that you are an asset to yourself and to others which will make it easier for him to obey you. Your clout with others tells him that you have character worthy of his obeyance.

Do not avail yourself to your boyfriend just for a date with a dinner and a dance or movie. Let him know that you are striving to make a difference in other people lives through charity work or communty service. If he calls you up for a date, tell him that you have another engagement at  a care facility. Do not lie to him in this process. of building your character. You want to reach out to other people so that you are not hanging on to your boyfriend who is not yet listening to you..

You can make  your boyfriend obey by finding other interests that take your attention from wanting to get him to listen to you.  It may sound like reverse psychology but it works so why not use it. If you have nothing to say, then why should he listen to you? He will only stay in the status quo of either partying with you or just having fun. If you want to make  him oey and listen to you, then you must have something of substance to say. The only way that you are going to have substance to say is to improve on yourself by helping others and not being with available whenever he calls to go out and have fun.

If your boyfriend is really a friend, then he would be interested in what you have to say. You should not have to be walking on pins and needles trying to figure out what to say or even how to make  him obey you. You may not be able to make him obey you right away, but there are myriad of things that you can do to improve what you bring to yourself and to the relationship.

Do not make yourself there for him at all  times. Give yourself some space and get to know what you are interested in. If you are afraid that he will find another girl friend while you are out doing good for others, then maybe it was not meant to be. Maybe he would have found someone else eventually anyway.

If you are concerned about making  him obey you, take a good second look at who you are dealing with. Is he really worth measuring your every word because he may not be interested in what you are saying? Why do you like a boyfriend who you can not talk openly to as a good listening partner?

Answer these questions and then look at what you are bringing to the table. If you are only bringing a good time, great hair, makeup and a great figure, then you need to think again. Those attributes can be found on a lot of other girls. You need to make yourself unique with becoming a better person and improving on your personality traits that want others (and not only your boyfriend) to listen to you.

 If you are trying to make your boyfriend obey you then you need to put that engergy in a positive place to make yourself a better person for yourself. He will notice that there is something "different" about you in a positive way sooner if not later.