If you want to know how to stop drinking then here are some suggestions for you:

1) Get professional help - this is always a good idea if you are struggling with alcoholism. For one thing, alcohol withdrawal can be quite dangerous and in fact it can actually kill you if you are not careful. Therefore you should think about getting in to a treatment center or a drug rehab that has a full detox unit.

Additionally, you might seek out a therapist or some sort of counseling to help you in quitting drinking. You can get a lot of good advice from a qualified professional, but of course remember that the motivation really has to come from within.

2) Get a support network - one of the most important things in early recovery is for you to find support from others who are on the same path that you are on. This generally means finding other peers who are trying to quit drinking and relying on them for support. The easiest way to do this is to attend 12 step meetings such as those at Alcoholics Anonymous. You might also meet some peers who can help you if you end up going to treatment.

A lot of times an alcoholic will have several people around them in their life who also drink too much. If this is the case then the person might want to put some distance in between themselves and these others who are a bad influence. My solution was to go to long term treatment, and in doing so I found a very supportive environment and was also able to get away from a lot of toxic relationships that were no good for me.

3) Push yourself to grow personally - if you want to know how to stop drinking then consider the idea that you have to go beyond just sitting in 12 step meetings all day and actually get out there and take action in your recovery.

In the beginning, sitting in 12 step meetings all day is actually a great idea. This will help you a lot and you need the constant interaction and peer support that you get from the fellowship. But as you progress in your recovery, this element of support and networking becomes less and less important over time, and personal growth and development becomes more and more important. This is evidenced by the fact that many people who get "stuck in a rut" in 12 step programs have a tendency to relapse eventually. Not everyone does, many many of them do. The problem is not so much that they "stopped working the program," but mainly just that they stopped taking action altogether. It is not so much the program that keeps you sober in the long run, but just the fact that you are taking positive action and staying involved with your recovery.

A great shortcut to fighting complacency over the long haul is for you to work directly with other recovering alcoholics. This is the single most important thing that you can do to help protect your own sobriety.