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By lindagoffigan


Christie Brinkley Couldn't Stop How can you?

It is public information that Christie Brinkley lost her husband in a divorce settlement for a younger woman. It was said that Christie Brinkley's husband bought extravagant gifts for the younger woman. However, no mention was given if Christie Brinkley's husband left Christie Brinkley to marry the young office clerk. Christie Brinkley was awarded custody of the children.

So where does that leave the average American wife who has been married for a number of years and may think that her husband as the older man is dating  a younger woman. The good news is that Mr. Brinkley did not marry the younger woman. Maybe if the media was not so involved in the celebrity coverage, Christie Brinkley would have forgiven her husband. Maybe if Christie Brinkley aspired to be in public service in a high political office, Christie Brinkley would have forgiven her husband. Maybe if Christie Brinkley had aspired to keep a seat as the wife of a high political official, she would have forgiven her husband.

Christie Brinkley was a wife scorned publicly and with all of her beauty her husband as the older man dated the younger woman.. You can stop your husband or boyfriend of many years from leaving you for another woman by making it clear that you will not tolerate anyone intruding in your marriage and especially a younger woman. This statement should be told at the onset of the marriage as one of the rules to stay married by.The statement alone, however, may not keep your husband from being one of the older men who dates  younger women.

Men have the proclivity to look and to lust after younger women because they are  often showing off themselves hoping to attract your husband, boyfriend or another man. It is their right to present themselves in a sexual manner to attract the opposite sex except when that person as the older man is in a relationship with you. Make it perfectly clear and be prepared to take action as in Christie Brinkley's case to end the relationship if your husband becomes the older man dating a younger woman..

If you found religion in your later years and find that your husband is having an affair with a younger woman, than it is up to you and your higher power whether you are going to let your husband or boyfriend remain in your life.

There is really no way to stop an older man from dating  a younger woman even if your keep yourself fit, trim, healthy and beautiful. Look at Christie Brinkley who still graces the cover of  magazines and who had to end a relationship because of her older man dating a younger woman.  Communication is the key to letting your man know that you will not tolerate him dating a younger woman. You should know your husband's character and  the signs if he is cheating or if he is the type of man who would date a younger woman

Review your individual circumstances and either seek professional counseling if by some unexplained reason, you find that your man has been dating a younger woman. The statistical data indicates that he will not marry the younger woman unless you seek to end the relationship. Also your propensity to forgive and to forget has a lot to do if the relationship continues if your man seeks date a younger woman.

Love  should be welcomed as a keepsake to block unwanted younger women from seeking to date  your husband. If the love is fading and things are not the same between your husband and you, then you need to meet with a marriage counselor. More often than not your man may be dating and telling a younger woman that things are not as they should be at "home." Some men lie about this situation to get what they want and some times they are speaking the truth.

If you think you husband may want to date a younger women and you know that you have not given him no cause to want a younger woman, then the decision is up to you to keep the relationship or to end the relationship. If a man wants another younger woman, there is no way to stop him. He must be a man of strong character with a certain loyalty towards you and that loyalty is called love to say no to the younger woman.

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Connie Smith profile image

Connie Smith  says:
5 months ago

For all the women out there who aren't holding up as well as Christie or who don't look like Halle Berry, many find it amazing that they, too, get cheated on. Some men are just dogs lol. I don't think she had a clue until the girl's father told her. She was blindsided. I agree that you have to let someone know up front that it is one strike and you are out. I would never put up with that and from knowing other women that it has happened to that stayed, it is pretty hard to get past that. It is devasting to the marriage and devasting to one's self esteem.

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lindagoffigan  says:
5 months ago

Thank you Connie Smith for your comment.  I am in complete agreement that a relationship is devastated when either one of the two in the relationship find another in which to relate.  With all of the political and entertainment affairs, I am beginning to think that only the old and decrepit where the wife was probably unknowledgeable of an affair decades ago can make it to a long term relationship.  Christie Brinkley is still smiling and had an attituded to be modeled when it came to how she handled the divorce case with her children involved.

nicomp profile image

nicomp  says:
4 months ago

"Christie Brinkley was award custody of the children."

should probably be

"Christie Brinkley was awarded custody of the children."

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lindagoffigan  says:
4 months ago

Thank you nicomp for your comment. The grammatical error has been corrected.

Fuckdat  says:
3 months ago

I dont care about that if he wants 2 leave let him go i left 2 of my wifes when they turned 30 for 18 year olds! And when my current wife (24) turns 30 its goodbye to her ive already started looking 4 a new young princess! I luv no prenub!

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lindagoffigan  says:
3 months ago

Fuckdat, thank you for your comment. You luv a prenup but did you love any of the women who are tosses as they reach a certain age. It does not make too much sense to me that you are hurting these women on purpose for a cause that is perennial and out of their control. What about you?

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