“I have a crush on someone!” this is the common words that come out of a person’s mouth especially for teenagers. Well this is normal for everyone. Everyone got a crush on someone. But how can you approach your crush when you are too shy to do so? You may think that it is easy for a man to approach the girl he likes. It is hard for a woman to do so. Well maybe it is easy for a man, but believe it or not, man or woman you are, the feeling is the same when it comes to starting a conversation with your crush.

• Start with topics like schools for teenager and work for the professionals. Yes, there are some professionals who are still ashamed of facing their crushes. When you are at school, you and your crush mat have the same class schedules. If you are at work, you and your crush may belong to one department or the same company. A walk to the class is best at school while having coffee with your crush is good at work. You can talk to your crush about something that you have missed in class or at work. You can ask questions about these. Sometimes, you can talk about movies that you and your crush can go to in your free time.

• Sit near your crush. This can allow you to take part in conversation that your crush may have with the people around them. This is best so that your crush would notice you. Making comments, asking questions and cracking for some jokes can help you.

• If you are in a group, ask anyone from the group which organization they belong or if they belong to an organization. With this, you can know the organization where your crush belongs. This might catch your interest and can be able to persuade you to join the organization that your crush is in. With this, you can get to know your crush better.

• Talk about the things that you find exciting to do after a class or a job. With this, your crush can also share about the things that she/he does after her work or class. This is where you can know which places you can see your crush often. You would know where he/she usually hangouts. You can then find a way to go to that hangout place to meet your crush. This can be done little by little.

• Look for any hints that your crush also likes you.
• Always act casually. This can reduce the awkward feeling that you feel.
• Ask your crush and some of her friends out for lunch
• Bear in mind that when you approach your crush in a friendly manner, you definitely can have a chance that he would like you back.
• Conversational skills is an important requirement
• If it could help, imagine that she isn’t your crush every time you talk to him.

Any friendly manner would do but always remember that do not stay friends for so long. Your crush might get bored. She might find someone else. Also do not use exaggerated jokes. Just remember to be casual all the times.