How to Treat Social Phobia
76The Best Ways to Treat Social Phobia
The 3rd largest mental disorder in the United States is social phobia, most people dont understand the severity of this disorder, they think that is just shyness, but it is much more than that, it takes over your whole life and you cant go to social meetings or talk to most people that you dont feel comfortable with.
Social phobia is the fear of being judged and scrutinize by others, this can become very severe to the point where the person wants to be alone most of the time and avoids going to work, meeting new people, going to public restaurants and talking to strangers.
There are different emotional and physical symptoms that they experience when they are in a social situation. When a new event is approaching or they know that next week they have to meet new people or get a new job position, they start to get anxious, fear takes over them and some physical symptoms appear.
Some of the typical physical symptoms of social phobia are palpitations, mind blank, fast heart beat, high blood pressure, sweating and others. In some cases it becomes so stressing that the person gets a panic attack.
So the main question would be How to treat social phobia?
There are different treatments for social phobia that are proven to be very effective in reducing or controlling the symptoms, however there is one kind of treatment that is the most effective and safest of all.
Social Phobia Treatments Advantage
Lets take a look at some of the available treatments their pros and cons:
Medications are one of the most widely used methods to treat social phobia or social anxiety and it helps to reduce many of the symptoms in the short terms especially when your problem is severe and you need some quick solution.
The downside of drug medications is that they do cause side effects and can become an addiction in some cases. This is why your psychiatrist or doctor has to monitor your progress closely to see if there are not major problems.
Another downside of medications is that they are just a short term solution, they are not going to cure your social phobia disorder, they are just going to treat it and reduce some of the symptoms.
For example they can control anxiety and depression, relax you, make you feel calm and even more sociable, but that is just temporary you will need to keep taking medications and most of the times medications have different effects to each person, so you will need to try different ones until you find the one that works for you.
The best drugs for treating severe social phobia
There are different kinds of drug medications that can help you to treat different symptoms.
Medications are divided in different types like:
- SSRIs selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors
- SNRIs serotonin norepinephrine reuptake inhibitors
- MAOIs Monoamine Oxidase Inhibitor
- Beta Blockers to treat performance anxiety
- Benzodiazepine
That is how medications for social phobia are classified, your physician will prescribe you depending on your symptoms. For example beta blockers are great to reduce the symptoms of anxiety in people that have to do performance or public speaking, but are not effective for severe social phobia.
SSRIs are some of the most popular and most prescribed by doctors. Usually they are anti anxiety and anti depressant drug medications that are effective.
Antidepressant approved to treat social phobia
However not all kinds of anti depressant are approved by the FDA. Paxil, Zoloft and Effexor are medications that have been approved by the FDA. Those medications also help you to go through CBT Cognitive Behavioral Therapy which we will talk about.
The Best ways to treat social phobia
We have talked about the different medications their advantages and disadvantages, now i want to let you know the most effective way to treat social phobia.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
Behavioral Therapy is the most effective way to treat social phobia because it goes to the root cause, it takes a little time and you have to follow the treatment, but it will actually change your negative thought and irrational beliefs for positive beliefs and good thoughts about people.
It will help you be less self conscious, accept your self as you are and learn to enjoy being around others people. It uses also exposure therapy to help you gradually be in social situations where over time you will be feeling more comfortable.
Self Help Tips for social phobia Treatment
Another helpful way to treat social anxiety is to learn social communication skills, like how to talk to people, how to be physically confident, how to persuade people, how to be liked by others, etc.
Learning social skills will help you be more confident the next time you meet someone else or you have to express your opinion in public.
Learn relaxation techniques to help you cope with your anxiety. You will also learn breathing exercises to help you control your physical symptoms.
Read some motivational books that can help you be more confident.
Meet people that have your same interest and hobbies, it will be much easier to talk with someone that has your same interest.
Online treatment for social phobia is possible if your psychotherapist have a website where he can comunicate via chat. However you can find help in social anxiety forums of people that have your same problem and have achieved good results. There are also some courses of how to cope and overcome social anxiety that might help you.
Those are some of the ways to treat social phobia that are very effective, apply some of them and also look for professional help, a psychotherapist can help you a lot and guide you until you recover. Dont let more time pass, you dont want to miss anymore opportunities.
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Hello Isha
I'm sorry to hear that your whole life has been affected like this. It is a shame that I have only just found your comment, because yours was posted two months ago. I am a college student also and my friend has social anxiety like you, though more recently in her case, and that's why I am looking it up. I'm not an expert on this subject, and am posting this comment not because I have the magic solution to your problems, but because sometimes it is just nice to know that someone has read your comment and acknowledged the struggle you are going through. Think carefully about the relationships you do have - that is to say, who are the people you trust most? You may feel as though you can't trust anyone, or most people at least. What are your hobbies/interests? If you like quieter, calmer activities like reading or chess you could maybe join a book club or a chess club, and bring a loved one with you so that you feel more confident. That is one step towards getting out of the house, not necessarily somewhere noisy and crowded, but where you can hear yourself think! I'm sure it is easier to meet new people when you have someone you know and trust with you. That way you will be trying something new, but it is important not to place too much pressure on yourself and know your limits. If you really do think you have social anxiety, perhaps you should try speaking to your doctor and see if you can get a diagnosis. Once you know what the problem is, you can start doing something about it. Counselling and therapy can help, but it is important to seek treatment and not be afraid to ask for help. Sorry that I've blathered on a bit here, but I hope this comment helps you - even if the solutions won't work, I hope it is just a comfort to you to know that someone has replied. I wish you the best of luck!
Love Caroline xxx
hello
thank you for this article,but i want to ask you about my problem
i just be anxity when i'm being important to others
i feels rigor and high blood pressure which prevent me from perform my work
an example : ican't play piano in a concert because of the rigor and get failed
please tell my what i can do in this problem?
Referring back to Carolines Statement.. the thing about caring about what you say to people. Itz like thinking ahead what the reaction will be and how you want it to be from the other person but it's not. I am not sure if i have social phobia, i don't really have a problem chilling at school and hanging out with my friends. But around family, i feel as if all my elders sort of are looking at me treating me like strangers from my before mishaps with the law. I know its all for the best. I may have made a few mistakes in the past, but the thing they fail to realize that I have no bad intentions. I really am a very good generous caring person. I have feelings. But i fail to show it to family because i just sort of give up. I have some strict uncles, if i were to talk to them, i would talk in a easy voice compared to as at school and things.Especially with my dad, i rarely talk to him. If i do it's just like simple things. I guess most teens don't really talk to their parents, but if my homies were to come chill it would only be when my parents are not home. I kind of try to ddo everything secretly, becuase i don't like when my parents say no at things i want to do, especially when it involves hanging out and stuff. I think it's just me and i have to be more open minded. I just want to live life happy. Thing's are smoothe in my life it's just relationships.
Hi my name is jackie I am 45 years old, I have suffered a social phobia also from being a child, it has taken over my life, I avoid people at all times, if I dont have a choice a panic attack starts. I can barely breath I am unable to talk my face, neck is almost purple in colour. I am waiting to get help, but they have told me it could be 18 months, but I have suffered with this for 40 years so I guess 18 months isnt too bad. I can't wait to start, anything to help me feel better. I have tried many diffrent medications to help but not have helped me up to now. I guess its comforting to know you are not the only one suffering from this terrible phobia. I wish everyone well.
wow. I have the same thing as jackie. Thank god Im a strong person who can hide this 90% of the time. But that other 10% is hell and I usually just trap myself at home until the feelings go away. Or I drink alot and it "loosens" me up so I can talk to anyone. But then I just get obnoxious and everyone ends up hating me the next day. I'm really getting pushed to the end and I didn't realize i was the only one until just now. Im 25 years old and this started when I was about 19. Been hell ever since but Im pushing. Just not sure for how much longer.
Hello, I am 18 years old teenager who has suffered sever social phobia since 6 years of age. It all happend when I have moved in to another country... I have been bullied since I moved there till I was 12 years old. I have opened up a little bit but I still suffer from this illness. My parents yells as me thinking I am an extremely shy person. I have noticed that whenever I am around my parents I tend to hide in my shell when going out, but when I am with my friends I am a totally different person from when I am around with my parents.
I also sometimes get the scared when I feel I want to invite my friends to hang out, but at the same time I know that they like me and won't reject me, but I'm stuck with this feeling of fear of rejection all the time. I always get the feeling that they might not think I am a fun and cool person to hang out with even though I know they don't think of me that way. I really need a help, I really need to treat my social phobia, it brings me down ALOT.
My story is the same to most of you, i also suffered from social phobia since i was a kid, but it took me year until i realized it. at age 36 I went to psychiatrist to seek help, what happened later was much more severe that the social phobia itself, I was prescribed seroxat, which turned out, after two tables, to be not the right medicine, the wrong medicine caused a chemical disorder in my brain, which led me to severe depression that lasted about two month, during which I was constantly crying and avoidable to almost every thing including work, fried and regular social activities.
I do not want you to be discouraged by my story some medicine as I was informed do help, but I only wanted to share you my story. Anyhow, I feel pretty good now, thanks to god.








isha says:
16 months ago
hello,
i am a college student and i feel i am suffering from social anxiety right from child hood ,but it is not very hyper ,i just get scared in crowd or in some social gathering ,i cant talk freely with any person not even to the people of my age ,i always try to talk to people who are lower guts or standard ,all this had affected my life many times,sometimes very badly please help me to overcome it.i think my life is going waste ,i cant develop my talents .but i dont want to take medicines ,if there are any other ways please tell ,i would be thankful.