How to be a straight Girl from being a Tomboy

This can be considered as a cool article in helping those who are in a brink of gender problem. We all know that in this world there are so many gays, lesbians and we also have tomboy. Whats the difference of a lesbian from a tomboy? A lot, a lesbian she is 98 percent feminine is doing most ladies are doing, from wearing pink stuff to admiring handsome guys. It is just happen that they also love to mingle with girls and have relationship with girls. How about the Tomboy? The answer is simple, She is a guy in the Girl's Body.

Many girls who are having this problems some of them are accepting the reality that they are not men and they have to adopt their hated culture, the Femine culture. At first it may be difficult but once you are into the pink culture, you will enjoy it.

1. Start off with small changes, don't do anything too drastic at first. Like if you keep your hair pulled up most of the time then wear it down. Or try sports-appropriate makeup such as lip gloss.
2. Start doing bigger things. Like if you wear glasses get contacts or add subtle highlights to your hair.
3. Go shopping. Go to places like Abercrombie and Fitch or Hollister or where ever all the girls LOVE to shop. If you hate shopping, buy a few key pieces that will last you for a while.
4. Wear make up. Don't go overboard! Mascara, eyeliner, and lip gloss will do fine.
5. Try to befriend more girls if all of your friends are guys.
6. hang with mostly girls

Lots of gurls have already written tons of useful advice, but ive got a few of my own (used to be a tomboy, too...)

1. Try to buy girl-magazines, like Seventeen (they usually have useful fashion and make-up advice.

) 2. Go to a salon and ask for a good haircut; layers and side-swept bangs (not the emo kind) looks good on everyone.

3. For your scars: get some self-tanner (try it on the inside of your wrist a day or two before you put it on your legs: the first time I didn't, and had horrible orange legs!)

4. If you decide to wear make-up, start slowly: go with mascara, then try out different eye shadows and stuff like that (they usually tell you what goes best with your eye or skin color in a department store)

5. The first time you wear a skirt, you will get attention; it's just a natural thing. I know lots of us hate it, but you gotta get used to it!

6. If you want to wear heals: start with small ones and practice walking in them at home. Slowly you'll get used to it.

7. The most important thing: smile! Theres nothing more beautiful or girly than a genuine smile...

8. Pamper yourself! Get a facial or a manicure. A french manicure looks great on everyone and is elegant, girly, and sooo cute! Getting a facial is usually really expensive but you can look for recipes on the internet and try a facial mask out at home!

9. Take care of your skin! Buy a good facial cleanser and moisturizer. When you start to wear make-up, you have to wash your face twice a day!

I hope this helped! Good luck and be proud you're a girl!!!!!!!!

--Posted by proudbrunette15

Good luck:

• Make sure you want to change. Be ready for anything you have to do. It doesn't mean that you have to give up your sport, just be more feminine.
• Don't change fast! Take your time. If you do all this over a weekend you'll look weird to other people.