Are people starting to whisper Bridezilla around you just days before your beach wedding?

Ok Time Out! That's what my best friend Karen said to me two weeks before my big beach wedding day.

According to her I was indeed turning into Bridezzilla. Karen and I were best friends since childhood so lucky for her she could get away with such a statement.

But deep down in me, I knew that it was true. I was moodier than ever, confrontational, and unable to sleep.

Off course I was on the brink of godzillaness.I just wanted everything to be perfect for my day that I ended up blocking out everyone else's suggestions. In doing so I just ended up alienating them. Oh Boy! Did this create a lot of tension

Hi, its Betsy again, please do consider my friend Karen's advice, if anything that I have said is familiar to you .

Taking time out in the last week before the wedding is a worthwhile plan.
Especially if you have been planning the beach wedding from day one then you really don't want to end up in tears in the bathroom on the day or look so stressed out that you end up with frown lines on your forehead.

Everyone knows that the day is all about you you you but why not get away for a weekend at least for a little you time away from everyone else.

Here's what I did. At the very end of my discussion with Karen I decided I was going to do things differently. I signed up for a yoga class the same afternoon .Let's just say I needed to learn how to breathe. I then booked a spa day for me and my two closest friends Karen and Ashley.

But the best thing I did was have a midweek break before the weekend of the beach wedding. I just said to myself If It's not perfect now it will never get any better and I accepted that everything was in order.

I packed a weekend bag and took off.I didn't answer calls but checked messages in case there was an emergency. I had a wonderful time by myself, no distractions or irritations, it real was time out. I took along a few good books, a bottle of wine and it was all the calm I needed.

Today I can say it was well worth it since I was as cool as a cucumber on my beach wedding day. It actually felt like I had hired a planner to do the whole show. By sharing this experience with you I hope that you too will say the same after your beach wedding day.

These ideas are sure to make you feel like a beauty and not a beastly bridezilla on your beach wedding day.

Take A Deep Breathe- Enrol In A Yoga Class

Exercise is one of the best ways of relieving stress after all the endorphins released will be sure to keep you feeling happy. It may also assist in getting a good night's sleep. You don't have to frantically work out in the gym.

Try a few basics modifications in your everyday life.
For example when you're checking out vendors for cake and flowers, check out if it is possible to walk from one to another then put on your comfortable walking shoes and get stepping.

Why not try a yoga class, walk the dog, or for some real fun you could arrange a girl's night out and dance the night away.

Relax Treat Yourself To A Spa Day

It's no secret that when we look good, we feel good about ourselves and people react more positively to us.

Primp and pamper yourself with a facial, pedicure, manicure or whatever you feel you need to look your best on your beach wedding day.

Once your'e done at the beauty salon why nt watch a movie or have lunch catching up with new and old freinds.

Make A Fresh Start-Spring clean whether you are moving house or not

Don't forget you may need to get packing if you will be moving house.

Even if you are not, why not get things organised. Afterall you are starting anew life so why not use this as an opportunity to let go of some of the things you've been holding onto for years.

I know all too well, I am the queen of collection. I keep everything, every receipt every serviette. Don't worry my home doesn't look like a trashcan .I am very well organised it's just that I am too sentimental for my own good.

Remember that your beach wedding day is special because you will be marrying the person you love, the person you will spend the rest of your life with and that is most important.

Everything else is trivial so don't go beating yourself over minor setbacks.

Focus on what's really important and everything else will fall right into place.

I hope I have inspired you to relax.


Wishing you all the best.
Betsy

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