How to console a person who has recently lost her loved one

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By rudy_morete


 

It was a few days past that I made a response to one request regarding on how to deal with the lost of a loved. That was a good article and I do hope that one of these days you will try to visit and read that particular article.

On the above mentioned article, the person that was to be consoled was the one asking the question on how to deal with the lost of a loved. So let me start answering your request with this introduction.

So many people have experienced to be in that situation and have lost even the ones they loved so much. People who have done good things to their family and to his fellowmen are hard to forget. And this sometimes put their parents to experience the feeling of losing a child that was really loved so much by them.

This is God's will and we have to accept whatever happens to our dear child or loved ones. Things that we need to accept even without any corresponding evidence that goes with it.

Some people have already been affected by this situation and some were badly affected as shown by how they tried to spend their lives with this thing in mind. It's really hard to be in that situation because we really do not know how one reacts whenever this situation occurs. And this is bad for those people suffering from any illness or disease and we should be very, very careful on how to console this type of person.

It is better to ask a person that he or she really respects, trusts, listen to and could possibly give him the right advice to fully console him on the death of a loved one. He may not be able to listen to his immediate family but for sure he will listen to somebody he respects and trusted so much.

The more we cry on the lost of a loved one the more he will not be in peace to where he is now. We should start accepting the fact the he is now dead and he is going back to our creator to spend another life away from us. Accept the fact that we will all spend the rest of our lives without him. Only God fully knows the right path and place for anybody he creates to live on this earth.

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