We all have been through what we think are perfect relationships at the beginning even for long periods of time, I mean we often take a life time to build that relationship and all it takes is just one day or one bad incident to ruin it and then it's not so perfect anymore. I mean there are those of us who think that they've invested in the relationship and would like to make it work rather than blow everything away. But who knows if we aren't being set up for the same mistake again? So this is why this article will help you get over your ex, if you chose to walk away.

1.Fisrt of all i can say that one of the greatest things you are doing is walking away from that relationship. The fact that you have made it this far is because you made the choice to change, because staying would have kept you in this caccoon and you would not have been able to start healing.

2. Secondly, (clean out the clutter or closet, just a little term i like to use for) taking away everything that reminds you of your ex in your living quaters.Pictures , clothes, book, ANYTHING.If you can't live without them then i guess that's ok but if you can manage without them then it can be easier for you to move on.

3. Another thing is, During the time of coping with your Breakup, be sure to not listen to any music that's emotional or reminds you of your ex. That tends to soften you down and take control of your mind, then you will burst into tears or do something you might regret afterwards.

4. Also, avoid your ex friends, because you keep having to repeat yourself about the breakup and what happen and so forth, and sometimes they just might try to influence you on going back to your ex to work things out, but you don't want to do that because they are only on the outside looking in and don't know the situation that you had to deal with.

5.Then, you may also want to consider occupying your time in doing something fun and conctructive . Freeing up your mind from what you have been dealing with. Thing about your ex and your break up could drain you and keep you on the blue or sad side,as oppose to hanging out with friends that won't be negative or talk about the situation. Or you could just spend time with yourself at Happy Hour, maybe you could get to meet new people or just take in the scenery.

6. Treat yourself, to the movies, something with not too much crying or emotions. dinner, travel/vacation whatever floats your boat. Heck you could even start a new hobbie, something that you love and have a lot of interest in. Maybe if you like to write you can start an article, just go to www.hubpages.com and publish your experience, in order to help someone get over their ex as well.Maybe start a scratchbook with something fun and exciting. I've attatched a link of a scrab book that helped me, really great and you'll feel better about yourself and your decisions.

7. I hear a make over usually takes a big load of stress off and i myself have done it and it really worked out for me, So that's always a route you could consider. Nothing too, big trim a little bit of hair, for those who don't have a lot maybe you could take a chance and change up the style with a new color. Perhaps you're not happy with your weight, eat healthy and take longer walks or jogs and sleep, see the results flash before your eye.

8.Smile more often, give compliments and take time out to help someone. You know that it always give you a warm and pleasant feeling in your heart knowing that you did something even better to help a complete stranger or good friend.

9. I'd also suggest writting a Diary and making sure that you put away all your bad thoughts and anger in their and when you are strong enough you can always read them and see how far you've come from what you used to be.

10. Last but not least, Meet new people, by that i mean date. Explore why not? Like they say test the waters, you never know where true happiness is if you don't explore.

These are my greatest healing a heartbreak remedies,guaranteed to work if you follow them. If you have any questions or concerns please feel free to leave them on the commentspace below and i will be sure to return them at my earliest convenience. Don't forget to add me as a fan and rate this article. Let me know if they were successful for you and also update me on your results.

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