How to get a date

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By Alek Novi


 

You know, most people pretend as if though you're supposed to know how to get dates just like that, without anyone explaing how to get dates. But the truth is, its not that simple. Anyone can TRY to get a date, but not everyone will get it. Here's how to increase your chances of getting that date.

1) Assuming you have your eyes on that woman... There's only one thing you need to do prepare to get the date. Realize that even the best of the best of the best in the world will only get a date once every 10 attempts (unless the woman has been hinting for months obviously). That means, in a general scenario, with a woman you barely know, the chances of you getting a date are slim. It means, you will get 9 NO answers for every 1 yes answer. And guess what? That's perfectly fine. But you need to realize this so that you don't depend on the answer. Realize that the answer doesn't matter

2) Walk up to that woman and say, with all honesty and sincerity "You know, I do find you interesting, and I would like to get to know you better in another enviroment. How about we go to [such and such]. The most important part in doubling your chances of a yes is not caring whether she says yes or not. Your attitude is that of just offering something. You're just offering this thing as if you would offer some of your potato chips to a friend when watching a game on tv. Have that exact emotion. This will double or even triple the chances of a yes.

3) If she says yes, ok. If she doesn't yes, ok. Notice, there is no difference. If you do feel a negative emotion because of it, go out to a public setting [bar, mall, gallery, party] and ask out 10 more women for the same thing, that same day. You will not only certainly get a date, but you will reconfigure your mind to stop depending on women's good reactions. And besides, if you can't walk out right now and go approach 10 women like this, and/or get a date from these 10 strangers? You need to take the quiz to see how you stack up with other men. In fact, you need to take that quiz anyway and see what you REALLY know about women.

 


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