Someone asked hubpages how they can get over a crush? Isn't the definition of a crush simply a guy or girl you are way into? In many cases crushes occur before you even date or really know someone. Getting over a crush just isn't difficult. Dealing with a divorce and children is a real world problem.

If you have a crush put some feelers out to see if this person feels the same way. Have a friend approach this person if you are uncomfortable. If it doesn't work out thats life.

Go out with friends and talk about something besides the person that clearly isn't thinking about you. Remember a healthy relationship requires mutual admiration. Dealing with "crushes" certainly isn't my expertise, but seriously relax and meet new people.

I'm working off the assumption that the person with the question wasn't in a serious relationship.