There are literally tons of things that can go wrong in a relationship, it's almost depressing when you look at how many relationship end each day, often for very dumb, avoidable reasons. Thankfully, there are sites like this to help you get your ex back. If you think your relationship is in danger, or wondering what you did wrong in your recent ex-relationship, then you will want to take a look at the list I've made as well. These are some of the things I've learned from the magic of making up website, the top 5 don'ts of relationships, and a good sign that you need, and can, get your ex back.

1. Cheating - Cheating on your partner is an absolute, inexcusable thing to do, for both he guys and girls to do. I can't even describe to you how many times I hear people trying to find out how to get your ex back, be it friends or family, and finding out they have ripped out their ex's heart right out of their chest because the person they loved so much cheated on them. Being unfaithful destroys trust, shatters the relationship, and causes the person who's being cheated on to begin doubting his or herself. If this is your case, then you need to seriously look into your heart, and decide for yourself, if your serious about the relationship, becuase cheating is something that cannot, and will not be tolerated. I'll be honest with you, if you've cheated, then theres a very high chance you may not get your ex back, theres a chance you will get your ex back as well, but you will be one lucky SOB if he/she does takes you back, and you had better never come anywheres near this scenario again.

2. Being controlling - Yeah, its funny on a sitcom when people are like this, but not in the real world. I've personally seen a relationship where the guy and girl would not let them wear what they wanted. If she wore a spaghetti strap shirt, he would go ballistic, makeup? That was a big no no, and in return she would treat him the same way, not letting him dress how he wants, or let him wear his ear rings (yes, he had his ears pierced, welcome to the new world to all you older people. ;) ) If this is why your relationship ended, and why your trying to get your ex back, good news, this can be fixed, you CAN get your ex back, but you (and your spouse) have to compromise to do so. There is no valid reason to not let people run there own lives, you're their spouse, they are grown up, and you are not their mom/dad.

3. Lack of support (emotional) - Everyone has feelings, regardless if they show it or not. Me, you, your ex, everyone. The one person, if no one else, that you should honor and respect's feelings, is your partners. When your spouse doesn't feel that you pay attention to their feelings, it hurts, a lot. The media now-a-days makes it look like guys never have feelings, but believe me, we do, and they get hurt just like everyone else's. Good news again, this is something that commonly happens, and you have a good chance that you can get your ex back if this has happened, it will take a little talking, some apologizing on someones part, but eventually you can get your ex back.

4. Fights - Every relationship will have arguments throughout the time you are together, and some will escalate into "fights" which completely normal, and believe it or not, healthy, sometimes. In a normal fight, air is cleared, anger is letout, words are spoke that have needed to come out, and it can often lead to a healing process. However, in some cases (often times because one or both of the spouses are not mature enough to handle things, not to say this is always the case) this can lead to a breakup for some of the dumbest reasons. Some people will break up for a few days, then come back together, only to repeat the same process a couple months down the line, these are fights that can, and should be stopped, it is unhealthy, makes both members of the relationship look like immature idiots in the eyes of friends and relatives, and can completely be avoided. The other half, are on rare instances, "the fight that ends the relationship" sort of thing. This can often be caused by lack of emotional support (number 3) but not always. Yes, you can get your ex back if this is the case. The first step is to relax, take some time apart from each other, think things out (when your NOT upset) and have a talk with your spouse. This is the number one way of breaking up, in a fight, and I guarantee you, about 90% of these breakups, you CAN get your ex back.

5. Boredom + lack of spontaneity - I hear about this almost as often as I hear about fight breakups, the relationship becomes boring, stale even, and leads to one of the members breaking up with the other. There is just such little reason why the time you spend with the one you love should become a routine job, rather than a happy, care free joy. This is easily fixable, be it on the girl or guy side, you can easily get your ex back if this is the case, it just takes a little work, a few dates, and some nice words, and you can very often get a second chance with your spouse. This is the worst reason I ever hear that people breakup, because there is nothing wrong with the relationship, just that it has become boring, and thats no reason to lose someone that brings you so much joy. Do yourself a favor, if this is your situation, get your ex back, because this is such a waste.

These were the top five reasons I've heard over my years, most (if not all) of them should not be reasons to destroy a relationship, can be prevented, and if it has already happened, can be fixed. It will take effort on both party members to fix a relationship, but it IS possible to make the first move, and get things into a good direction, and eventually get your ex back. Don't think it can be fixed over night, it can take days, or even weeks, to get a relationship back into a healthy status, but you CAN get your ex back. If you are in any of the above categories, Click here now to get free videos over how to get your ex back!