HOW TO KISS, GOOD

How to be a good kisser? If done rite a good kiss can be mesmerizing, intoxicating and magical. A truly electrifying experence tht will leave you breathless, and in a state of exquisite, euphoria.

But a good kiss is more than just a kiss. Its an empathetic journey through each others souls. It starts with the man communicating to the woman that he has a genuine and sincere interest in more than just her physical presence.

That he actually cares about what she thinks, and feels. This is accomplished by being a good listener. There is almost nothing a man can say to a woman, besides I Love you, that will touch her heart as much as, looking her in the eyes and being a good sounding board for her dreams, fears, and her desires.

Start by caressing her hand during the conversation, and squeezing it gently, when she becomes particularly emotional about a topic.

Don't wait for her to suggest a kiss, if you are being a good listener; when she has fully expressed herself,never interrupt, she will slowdown, and ask you what you think, if you have been paying attention to her; you will see the softening in her eyes,

And if you're really paying attention-you will see-that she is tired of talking, and needs to be held. Move in close place your hand so that your thumb is on her cheek, and your four fingers are firmly but gently supporting her neck, slowly, while looking into her eyes bring her face to yours.

Now here is where most guys blow it. Do not start the kiss out, trying to show her how studly you are, by sticking your tongue down her throat and gaging her.

Lightly brush you lips against hers. Withdraw and give her a chance, to say No to the kiss, just in case you've read the moment wrong. But don't prolong the withdrawal, if she gets the impressin you think somethingis wrong with her it's over; If she doesnt look surprised, reassure her by re-engaging;in the kiss.

When you resume the kiss, once your lips touch, you want to parse your lips as if you were sucking on a grape. When she opens her mouth, and exposes her tongue, once again, don't try to give her a tonsillectomy.

Play with the tip of her tongue as if you were licking a stamp or sealing and envelope, keep your lips to an oval about the size of a fifty cent piece, don't try to engulf her head. Never stick your tounge more than half into her mouth. Half way is sexy, any further is desperate.

Wet kisses are fine. Sloppy wet kisses are disgusting. Women know more about these things than men, and if you've done your home work, by listening to her, it is [OK] to let her take the lead now.

This is also the safest way not to blow a potentially lasting relationship, if this is your first kiss, with this woman, She will let you know how far she's willing to go. If she shows signs, of being, out of control and caught up in the physi-cality of the moment-if you really love her-this is the only time you speak.

You are either going to ask her if she's sure she wants to go further, some times another deep look, into her eyes will tell you this, or you are going to suggest that you wait, out of respect for her integrity. A good kissing session can last for hours and hours with out the hint of sexual intentions if you are really into the other person.

Either way a good kiss is more than just a kiss, it can be the beginning of a beautiful relationship.

It works the opposite for women. Check him out, slowly, if he tries to over power you with the kiss, get out of there; he doesn't know what the hell he's doing, You'll have slobber in you ears and you'll feel all yucky. And if he doesn't know how to kiss; you can bet he doesn't know the rest of it.

Enjoy