How to make a relationship work

There are no guaranteed relationship tips but some sort of guideline to make a relationship work or change a bad relationship into a healthy relationship.

You want to see your relationship alive and healthy with others,so you need to retain some points in your mind,otherwise a relationship cann't survive for longer and eventually end from its crippled stage.

Before mentioning some indispensible points in this regard,we see the second name for friendship is give-and-take relationship which is not worth of it,any relationship is behind as long as both people are firm and consistent to see it.

To make every thing is difficult and to break is easy.No doubt its unchallengable when it comes to relationships,its quiet easy to destroy a pre existing relationship but not as easy to create a new one or restore the ruined one whatever the relationship people have with eachother as its between two friends or a couple,between an employer and employee or between parents and children.So what makes a relationship ended ,when and why we are disconnected from eachother?

We cann't maintain a relationship for good without learnings the zig zags of compromise.At times its very necessary to save a relationship and the only solution to it is by compromising with your environment.Sometimes you need to abdicate from some of the rights to make the relationship go smooth with your seniors or arrogant boss at work.

Put confidence into a relationship,being skeptical may bring problems to you way.Every relationship starts with trust and believe,unreasonable fears and doubts weaken & hit it badly.And you also need to be reliable for others.

How you feel for the other matters but what and how you speak counts too,so communicate in a good manner.If no lies are there in the conversation its the best,try not to cheat or hoodwink the other.

Stubborness doesnt help,be flexible towards the other.Try to excuse eachothers mistakes or even sometimes ignore fully.This way you are giving a chance to the other person to bring some sort of improvement and change in his behavior.And avoid considering all those patty matters that has nothing else than putting you apart.

Helping eachother works a lot.Suppose your friend needs you and you start looking the other way,the result is..it will set distractions between you at last for its impossible you bolt out at the very time you are counted on and imagine it will not make any difference.No,the relationship has got a stain.

Respect has profound importance and do wonders in building good relationship.Many times we come across situations like this:

I see my friend is not ready to respect me.Okay, dont bother leave him/her and find a newone.

He/she doesn't honor me at all in home.So i suggest you to get rid of him/her.No worries.

How dare you say this to me.Leave,you are fired.

If you see someone is nice towards you,acknowledge it and show greatfulness.Encourage and praise the good qualities of the other as it will bring both of you closer to eachother and make the other person more congenial and satisfied for his right behavior.