How to make friends in a new city? As a new mother and a first time willingly unemployed stay at home mother it si...

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By privateye2500


Here is how I would make new friends in your situation

HI - :} I'm Melanie - glad to meet you here on HUB!

See, you have just now made a new friend. OK - so I know this isn't what you are after but hay, it's a start, right!?

There is also a big big difference for ME between friends and acquaintances.

I have a LOT of acquaintances; but few *friends*... To me, personally, friends are FAMILY.

So I am guessing you just want to meet a few people; have someone to talk with about similar likes, etc...

#1 idea - You're a new mom. Right there you have a great edge. Hit the nearest parks now that spring is here - there will be piles of new mom's out there walking their lil' ones. Great place to meet other new moms and already there you have something in common. (I think this is my best idea).

#2 idea - The public Library in the childrens department. They usually have a story time. Even Volunteer yourself to read. I've done this myself on occassion and it was not only fun; I did meet people and I wasn't even looking for that. (I actually did it because the usual *reader* just didn't show up!)

#3 idea - Groups...where you used to live did you belong to any type of group or meeting that is available nearly everywhere? If so, join the new one. If not, find one! If you are in a metro area there will be tons of groups and many, I am sure, for parents, single parents especially (not sure if you are single or not).

#4 idea - Maybe lame (I'm running out) SHOPPING. Grocery shopping can be a place to meet new people; other moms especially in the baby section.

I hope this helps a little. It's hard to move and be lonely. Good luck and hay - you always have us hubbers. :}

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moonlake profile image

moonlake  says:
2 years ago

My daughter moved to a new city with a new baby and a new puppy. She was so lonely at first. She joined the Y and became a volunteer that was how she met people her own age with kids. That was 12 years ago and she still has those same women as her friends.

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simpletone  says:
2 years ago

We just moved, too. We met some of our neighbors while moving in and then we hosted a neighborhood "social" where we all just brought some snack and hung out to get to know each other.

Another thing we did was McDonald's playland. We took our daughter during the day and met other parents that were there who are at-home parents as well.

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pune.chap  says:
14 months ago

Its easy. I know of a website www.mynextpal.com where for each city, they run an automated lucky draw to pair up people for friendship. So, you just have to register at www.mynextpal.com and you will have friends automatically selected by a computer

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privateye2500  says:
14 months ago

Oddly enough, since I wrote this hub (and why I have not been around HUB) is because I, myself, moved to a new town! LOL Actually, I believe I wrote this ion reply to someone's Q...anyway--

SO far I have found that online sites are a really great way to meet people!! Not those scummy sex sites, but just friend sites; it is amazing how they can match you up by interests, etc...and it's nice to find someone you feel comfy with and have to hang with and do things with - PLUS - bonus, they know the city and can at least show you how to get from A to B wihtou driving with a map in your face!

LOL

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