First of all I would like to change the title so I have written the Capsule Subtitle as per my view:

HOW TO MAKE THE PARENTS LISTEN TO KIDS

I would also like to remove the last three words from the main title of request. And these three words are ALL THE TIME! I believe that no one is continuously ready to follow the advice given by you or me or any one all the time! Well, I know the meaning behind those words when included! But at the same time I am not against the discipline...

To make my point of view more clear let me add that as parents we have to come out from our individuality and our stress and likings and disliking regarding the sake of kid/s as well as us too! The magic behind this concept is some how little complicated because of the fast packed life of today! But who has made this life fast? Kids are responsible for that? If we are responsible then we must be cool down and rethink the issue!

Please, don't involve parental ego while listening the kids: They have lot to say, tell, express and explore with you; not as a care taker, but as a sharing process/ element! This kind of things we could not find in any book related with parenthood or caring parents! This could be understood by our own loving attendance or care or just to follow that whole heartedly!

Let us go to our childhood memory and find out our own growth moments: When we learned the real value about helping others without knowing or naming it as a value!? Just think and try to find out that such moment would have a magic touch of love and love only! And love is not a time bound thing!

Please, count that how many times have you listen some thing very important thing from your child's basic question/s? I know that some time parents can't attend the kid/s and try to say that 'we will talk about that lately' or 'I will reply you surely after doing this' with soft voice, smile and care! BUT...

Yes 'BUT' is lingering around this kind of attendance some time in the kid's mind! At the same time emotional break trough also occurred! I have learned things by mistakes also and I know that this is a process of parenthood. So correcting our selves is more important rather than blaming kids or claiming us a parents! It is necessary to look our selves with an objective method to get the right perspectives about our own kids and their behavior! If there is INDISCIPLINE, ANGER, EMOTIONAL BREAK TROUGH; there would be deep reason related with kids inner consciousness, which would be stored as a question, misbehavior, shock treatment or what ever name we can give that!

So let us calm down and come down considering reality and coexistence, let us put parenting aside or consider parenting as a love filled care and decide the thing in that perspective! I am sure things will be changed magically for you and kids both!

I think this might be the end point with a hope to grow our selves with our kids!