In the intimate sphere, everybody knows that the category is our quality of life in the rewards of a good sex, a life in harmony. Then what happens? Why do not we care more for the parcels of our life?

One of the most important issues in our life is to care and increase our affections, to be loving and caring people who love to turn, we met and loved.

The psychologist Perara Angel Roca, Professor, School of Psychology at the University of Havana, has the view that many times the usual daily wear due to the illusion.

So before the fans loving and not kiss each other, unaware of the wishes of his closest partners, and even ask similarly not ask reward themselves.

Perhaps because they expect a formal denial or complacency is perhaps worse. The fantasy is over and the repertoire of verbal exchanges on the erotic level reaches a minimum.

When it reaches this point, it is very near the end of love, and lands on a barren marriage without accomplices jokes that mitigate conflicts, the weariness of work and struggles of life. In a bit, goes into a routine perna by exhaustion, as has Elizabeth, a teacher retirement:

"They are 30 years of marriage, and instead of being happy for having spent so many years with a good man, still by my side despite my temper and my obesity, I feel sad.

Spent almost 20 raising three sons, but now the boys left home, living their own lives, but I can not live mine. Give some rhythm to my marriage, but a salsa beat, at least danzón.

It seems that when marriage is neglected, not maintained a certain amount of care as vacacionar solos from time to time or send the kids to grandma's house, the space between him and ends with you filled with cobwebs. And now not found the duster to get rid. "

The moral of the experience of Isabel is clear: The first reason for being a couple is your community, your personal satisfaction regardless of the children - and if this runs out, everything else is formal.

Many misunderstandings and breakdowns can be avoided by paying attention and devoting time to our partners, especially the way they always look bright flowing exchange, both verbal and emotional.

When the communication is part of the code of the couple, and thanks to her understanding, respect, not attack or throw double messages, can be heard, it is obvious that this promotes better sexual performance for both .. One day in harmony, in the evening provides a great sexual encounter.

When there are disagreements, friction inherent in any marriage is better ventilated somewhere outside the house where the very act of staying in public, do not contain the emotions and superb break.

It is not advisable to use the bed as a boxing ring. Some couples are insulted in bed and then left in the memory of both those bad moments.
In bed, only to grow in love.