Men are the protector and is not to be protected by women.  If you feel as though you have to protect your man then he must have  some serious security issues.  Self esteem plays a role also in feeling that you need to protect your man from flirtatious women.  If you feel highly of yourself, you may notice the flirting women, take it in strive and let it go.  If you are insecure with all the attention you man is getting from other women, then you need to modify the relationship by discussing the issue and letting him know how you feel about all the female attention that he is getting.

 But on second thought, who said that your man wanted to be protected from these assertive women? If he would make himself unavailable, these women would not be in place to flirt with him.  Women have a sense when they can move in on a relationship, the same way as men do.  Women can sense when they have he man's attention even if he is with another woman.  Her thoughts are, if he is looking at me that way, why is he with her?  Men are mostly tagged with the knowlege of knowing when a woman is interested in them because they are  normally the one out there hunting for a mate.  But more often than not, women has a keen sense of when a man is letting her know that he is available regardless of whose company he is in.

One sign that a man is available is that he will not mention that he has a wife unless you indicate to the contrary that you are married.  If the word wife or husband do not fall out of each other mouths, then the playing field is all clear.  So it is obvious that men do not need to be protected, neither do women when it comes to being flirtatious. Just by having a conversation with a man, you can tell if he is interested and what value he puts on his relationship at home.

If you feel that you must protect your man from a flirting woman, then you have found yourself in a rocky unreliable relationship.  Imagine going to a grocery store with a small child and having to make sure that the child is holding on to the basket and is safe from harm.  You feel that it is your  responsibility because the child is helpless and do not know of the dangers of the world.

The man who you are supposedly having to protect from other women is not a child and definitely do not need your protection.  He is aware of what the woman is indicating and if you are standing by watching and waiting to protect a grown man, then maybe you need counseling.  Women can easily say what type of man they would like to be with.  Men are a little less transparent but they do know what type of woman they are attractive to.  Your radar is not needed to stiple any flirtations as the man knows what he is looking for even if he is with you.  If he has his women beamers on while he is with you then maybe he is not that into you.

If you think that you need to protect your man, then I would walk away from the relationship.  Women knows when not to convene on a couple who looks like they are totallly enthralled with one another.  Most women would envy a relationship and know that your man's door can not be opened because he is too busy pleasing and enjoying your company.  Connectivity has been lost if you think your man needs to be protected from flirtatious beautiful women.

Maybe, you are filled with envy because he is able to attract flirtatious woman and leaves you to play the imaginary role of protector.  Why not get your entourage together of attractive admirers.  The next time that a flirtatious woman interrupts your relationship with a wink of the eye or a sliding away of the sunglasses, take it in strive and mentally see how your partner is taking the attention.  If he is basting in it then surely he is not all that into you.  If he feels uncomfortable and asks to leave the area, he is moving in the right direction.  If you feel that you must protect him like a child from the dangers of flirting women,  you should stop wasting your time and look for a stronger man who will have you as his center of attention.  You are worth it.