How to save a relationship?

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By Vishal P. Rao


Here are some tips to help you save and nurture a relationship...

Drop the Ego - Ego is #1 factor contributing to failure of majority of relationships. What are arguments? It's nothing but clash of egos. A person without ego will never feel the necessity to argue with someone. He'll simply surrender and say - you win. You have to realize that one can see only one side of the coin. The other person sees the other side and both are always right.

Let Go - What most of us call love is nothing but attachment and insecurity. Real love is where you can free the one you love at any given moment. You only desire for their well-being and happiness, whether they are close to you or not.

Take a Hobby - Gteting involved in a hobby or doing what you love improves your well-being and sense of worth. As a result you don't have to depend on other sources (spouse) for gratification and appreciation.

Mediate - Meditation is the only way to drop the ego and bring about peace within yourself. If you are contented and peaceful inside, there is peace and harmony outside.

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