how to save a relationship?

first of all the relationship may be going on a natural course of drifting which you cant pull together. which means that you werent really made for each other or you both may not be incomapatible. then why to save it?

so find out whether it is the relationship

ofeten in our youth we meet people who vary from friends, contacts, acquaintance,colleague, partner, roommate girlfriends then lovers.

it is better to identify what kind of relationship you are in

also find out whether the other person reciprocates your feelings

dont rush in for your emotional needs

your emotional insecurity may not make a relationship secure

dont rush in for financial security or job security . all these may be part and parcel of planning but not a total relationship.

we tend to make mistakes when we are in love and when we make mistakes that too both of us then we are really in love. go for it and save it .clearly confusing isnt it? that is love

love should happen

1. often you meet with failures and compromise with a not so likeable or worthy partner and then regret throughout life.
2. often someone close to you or pretend to be close to you read you learn your failures mention that and then demoralise you and force you into a relationship with them gaining acceptance from your family and friends. it will not work and make you claustrophobic. because you are trapped

in situtations like the above said it is better to let go than save.

• but sometimes you have a mental image and someone fits the bill though not perfectly and appeal to all your senses inspite of their imperfection.love is to see the imperfection perfectly and still desire .
• you love from the heart and though it may seem improbabale it might begin to happen
• you feel within your soul that this is the one relationship you cannot live without

in all these cases go for it and save the relationship.

how to save the relationship

• fights should be shortlived kiss and make up
• dont sleep overnight with a fight
• dont try to talk it out if it doesnt help
• bide time
• non verbal communication and gestures of love helps
• dont be too sentimental
• dont overdo expression of love
• you cant be mature when you are young so be yourself
• dont fall for rebound phenomenon and hurt with closeness to someone else
• never mention words like split divorce seperation
• dont be head strong be weak hearted and vulnerable
• display your true emotions
• never trust a go between
• write a nice letter genuine one
• wear dresses that your partner desires
• go to places you have been together
• be in the vicinity of your partner
• use the word sorry than please