How does a person fall out of love. From experience I know that there is no way a person can fall out of love. If you are in a relationship with some one for years and they say that they love you and than the next year you have a falling out and they say that they no longer love you than chances are they never did love you however if you and the other person had a falling out and just separated and you want to get back with that person and they still want to try to work things out than the other person does love you. This is a catch 22 question but at the same time if the other person does not love you it is hard to make them fall in love with you because you can not make a person fall in love with any one. The only time a person loves any one is when they feel that the love is true between them and the other person. (excluding children this is some other kind of love).