1. Try as much as possible not to talk about the issue.

 2. Also take care that the rest of the family too avoids talking on the same. If you have to be curt in asking your family not to raise the topic, do so.

 3. Don't ever try to show sympathy with her as that will only aggravate the pain.

 4. Take her for a holiday. If her health doesn't permit, then take her for a film or dinner.

 5. Avoid watching kid stuff on the television. Switch channels in such cases.

 6. Try to take leave from office and surprise her by being at home. Make her realise that you are there by her side.

 7. Finally, never ever blame her for what has happened. Keep telling her that there's always a second time.