How to tell him you don't always want sex without offending him

Guys are sex hounds. Seriously, it is proven that most guys tend to think with the wrong 'head', if you know what I mean, a lot of the time. And it's hard to tell them, "Sorry babe, but I'm just not in the mood" without somehow hurting their ego, feelings or there desire to get into your pants. So, what is a girl to do when she is the one who doesn't want to have sex all of the time. We want more then just that right? And how to we accomplish by not hurting their feelings or letting them down every once in awhile?

Trust me, it's not easy! But to tell you the truth if you say to your guy, "Hey babe, I'm not really in the mood, couldn't we just talk or go out and do something?" They will get a little offended, but if he really cared about you, he would respect you and hold his own urges until later. I mean, who should he love more, you and who you are or sex? Which one sounds more appealing to you? Both right! But wouldn't it be great to have a nice balance between the two?

Okay now here's a great way to get him to lessen the sex, but still keep him excited and guessing. Tell him that you don't feel up to it at the moment, but that if he waits until later (and you can decide when that is) you will make it worth his while and when you do have sex, make it exciting and new. Throw in some stuff you've never done before! Maybe something exotic or look up some new and daring possitions. Use food! Whatever you wanted! Then he'll always be glad to wait until your ready cause he will know that he'll get more in return. It's like holding a bone in front of a dog.

I hope that helps :D