Trapping a man into marriage is very difficult to do. Back in the day, men were a more responsible breed when it came to taking care of their babies. Women who were intent on getting a man to marry her  without benefit of birth control would produce a child out of the passion of the moment. Out of responsibility and intent on trying to make an "honest woman" out of the mother, the man would promptly marry her. That occurrence was really what they call the "old days." Also in the days of "old skool" the woman wanted desperately to get married before the age of 21 for fear of being called an old maid. The signs of the times was to get married have really have changed.

Women now are waiting until their thirties and forties to get married. Some women are even waiting until they reach their forties to have children let alone having children before the age of 21. There was also a time when the woman did not want her child to be born out of wedlock.

Now having a child before marriage is about status quo among American's teens. There is now a popular term called momma's baby's Daddy and a movie has been made about the incidence of having a baby before marriage and naming the unwed man as the father. There are plenty of this genre of women struggling to make ends meet while the father is busy adding to his family without the benefit of a marriage license.

To write how to trap a man into marriage is difficult to write because of the phenomenon that is happening as this article is being written. There are kids in the world looking up to their mothers to be fed because there is not a man in the family to take care of them. But that is another story.

To trap a man is to play the periennial game of hard to get. The game still works and men will always wants someone who they can not have. It is just in their psyche to hunt until they catch their prey. However, the games gets old after a while and the woman will eventually give in to her captor. But that is the name of the game. Put yourself out there with all of the trappings that men are attracted to and then tell them you can look but you had better not touch. You can look but you had better not touch is another flirty game that women play to trap a man.  The success of such moves still remains to be seen except during the teenage years.

To trap a man into marriage is difficult because of the promiscuity in society today. Society is liberal in its implications of sex before marriage so a woman can not trap a man with sex as easily. In most movies which job is to reflect real life situations, there are liasons in the bedroom within the first few minutes of the movie without the benefit of a wedding ceremony.

The two games mentioned, playing hard to get and you can look but you had better not touch can be played to get the man interested. Getting him to give up the promiscuity that is prevelant in society today and choose one partner is going to be more difficult.

The better way to trap a man is to leave the trappings to each individual situation. Get to know who you are as a person and then widen your horizons. If you know yourself to the hilt then go where the men are and make yourself available. No one is going to come riding on a white horse in the knight attire and sweep you off of your feet while you are looking at American Idol.

You have to trap a men by going where they are assembled; be it the church or a club, whatever is your preference. With the current divorce rate and the ease with which society accepts cohabitation without marriage, trapping a man into marriage is going to be a lot different and even more difficult in today's world.  How can you trap a man into marriage when the institution of marriage is no longer as solid as it use to be in America?  People  are accepting the other alternative of just living together thinking that marriage may end in divorce based on the odds.

Back in the day, living together or "shacking up" was something that was not good. Now the phrase shacking up is synomous with living together or partnering together  and is acceptable in today's society.

Who in America said that freedom was not free. As the country becomes more liberal, the institution of marriage seems to fade. Trapping a man into marriage becomes about as easy as trapping a mouse when the mouse already has got the cheese.

Time has changed and now women are not trying to hook or trap a man with the birth of a child. More often than not, these type of "Shotgun Weddings" have resulted in divorces. The many marriages where a man was trapped into marriage may be coming to a head.  Women are much more independent and feel that having a man in their lives is not a desperate issue when babies can be born in the labortories and Vermont has just passed same sex marriages.

Trapping a man has changed and more often than not the decision to go after a man at all is totally up to the individual woman.  It is ultimately her individual decision whether she wants to trap or to be trapped.