There are times when people find themselves questioning whether their significant other is still in love with them. There may be multiple reasons why people ask this - it could be because of they feel like as a couple, they are growing further apart, the romance you used to have is non-exsistent, or maybe your husband is ignoring or even rejecting your attempt at rekindling your romance.

This usually means a troubled relationship, and can be because of your husband having an affair. It's difficult to imagine that someone you have loved and trusted for so long will do this, so you put it at the back of your mind and think that you are in delusion. This is the case with most wives that have cheating husbands, they will actually wait until the signs of a cheating husband (huge list of signs in this article) become so obvious it's too late to prevent anything from happening.

If you've read that article, and have found more than a few "coincidences", you should get out of your delusional world and act. Not trying to be a bitch here, just being real. This is a topic I'm familiar with, I was married at an early age (23) and after 3 years of marriage, and me devoting my entire life, even stopping my career, I discovered he was cheating on me only just a year after. He confessed that himself, all I had to do was tell him I'm going to expose him to everyone he knows and how he was cheating on me with his secretary.

Exposing your cheating husband may not be for everyone, but I can guarantee you that if you do nothing and wallow in your self pity and delusion, nothing will happen. That is true for everything in life, waiting for a miracle will disappoint you, you have to act on your own and make things happen. A simple GPS device will help you know where your husband (or atleast his cellphone) is located.

It's fairly simple to catch him cheating. On the same website, you can find a how to catch a cheating husband guide related to cellphones / keyloggers / GPS trackers etc. I would recommend just going with the cellphone spies.

Why the cellphone spies? If you read the article linked above, or related cellphone spy articles on that blog, I'm not talking about the types of cellphone spies that actually shows you the text messages or phone conversations, I'm talking about the ones that let you track where the phone is. Why this and not read the actual text messages? Simple, I'm a cheapass and those cheating husband software/cellphone spies discussed in that article cost more.

I just want to know if he is cheating/lying to me, and that is what the cellphone tracker does. It shows me the location of the cellphone, I then call the phone and ask him where he is. If he gives me an answer different from what I see using the software, I know he is lying. Once you have a proven fact that you have a lying husband, the cheating husband part will soon follow, and it will be easier to convince yourself that you are not delusional! It happens to anyone, no matter how much of a great wife you are.

Want even more pushing? Take this test on Oprah's website! Do something or end up being frustrated and living in denial for a long time. Confront him once you're done with your research.

Research on methods on how to catch your cheating spouse.

Pick the best method you have reseached. Some like hiring a private investigator (expensive, most charge $100-200/hour), some want to do everything themselves, and some (could be you) just want to wait out and see what happens, which is wrong specially if you think there is a high chance he is cheating AND you have kids. Act.

Follow through with it. No matter how hard it is or how bad it makes you feel, you need to follow through otherwise you'll regret it in the future.

Keyloggers

These can be in hardware or software form. What a keylogger does is tell you what is being typed on the keyboard or laptop. As I have read, hardware keyloggers are the prefered choice because it is undetectable by virus scanners. Very useful for catching a cheating spouse.

Cellphone / simcard spy software

These gadgets allow you to view text messages that have been erased from the cellphone. Some even let you listen while a call is in progress. These require you to handle your husband's cellphone, and insert the simcard into the hardware to be read, it takes a max of 2 minutes.

GPS trackers

These trackers can be attached to cars, or some are built in on cellphones, which shows you where the tracker is currently located at. It's not very easty to detect this, especially those planted on cars. Software is installed in your computer or cellphone giving you a visual of where the tracker currently is at.