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By jimmythejock


WHO'S THAT GIRL


How can you get a girl to like you?

She is the girl of your dreams,every time you see her your heart skips a beat, every thought in your head is about her, you make small scenario's in your head, taking her out, walking hand in hand with her ,talking and laughing with her and even kissing her. The problem is that you don't even know her name,you have never even spoken to her,so how are you going to get her to like you?.

There are no hard fast rules when it comes to getting someone to like you, you can try as hard as you like but no matter what everyone is different and everyone has different tastes,she may be the girl of your dreams but you might not even feature in hers. You can't force someone to like you nor can you buy affection from a person,a person will either like you or they wont.

Get Her To Notice You Too

The first thing to do is to try and get her to notice you too,if you are passing her in the street smile as you pass and say hi,of course don't make a nuisance of yourself by walking past her every 2 minutes,just in passing, give it a couple of days of saying hi once or twice a day in passing and then the next time you pass pretend to notice something at the other side of the street just as you are passing and see if she says hi to you first.it sounds silly but if she says hi it means she has noticed you.

Start a Conversation

Now that you know that she has noticed you it's time to start a conversation with her.

The next time you pass her on the street after she has initiated the hi, smile and say hi as per usual let her walk past then turn and say "excuse me" when she turns ask her a question pertaining to the street you are in i.e " Do you know where such and such shop is"?.after that try to get into a conversation.

Ask Her Out

Asking a girl out can go either of 2 ways she will either say yes or no, no doesn't mean yes but sometimes no can mean maybe,if the answer no is followed by "I can't tonight" or what ever night you chose to ask her out on, because "I have to be somewhere else", is an opening to ask about a different night. but if she says "no im washing my hair that night" or something similar to that it means that she really isn't interested in going out with you and it is time to move on.


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Iðunn profile image

Iðunn  says:
3 years ago

asking them to fight a revolution with you works well also. ;) lord save us from bad boyz, eh?

wajay_47  says:
3 years ago

Great hub, Jimmy, as usual. But, I like finding women the old fashioned way - getting phone numbers off the wall of the men's room! Great hub!

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NightFlower  says:
3 years ago

I like the attitude u express men should have in the latter paragraph...in other's word the guys shouldn't give up. You're right Jimmy, no doesn't necessarily mean no in that case. We get nervous sometimes. I know I do.

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jimmythejock  says:
3 years ago

Thanks nightflower

William Lewis  says:
3 years ago

yah, i really love this girl named amelia fiesal. she is the prettiest girl in the world and i have liked her for 3 years now. i want to ask her out, but every time i get near her, i feel sick. got any tips anyone?? <3 =-)

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vishenda  says:
3 years ago

Valuable!thanks for sharing this hub.

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FoxyK7  says:
3 years ago

This is VERY interesting!!!!

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Ralph Deeds  says:
3 years ago

Wajay, why not put a few of those numbers up in a HUB?

AC  says:
3 years ago

I really like this girl on my bus and i'm tring to get her to notice me. I tried alot of things but nothings working. Sometimes she talks 2 me but not alot, I dress nice smell good and try 2 get her 2 look at me but it's hard.

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highperformance  says:
3 years ago

thanks! whew!

...  says:
3 years ago

Theres this girll i really like..its been almost a year and weve been through alot of this but now shes with another guy..nd iunno what to do anymore

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Zelmarie  says:
3 years ago

I had a crush in college we used to ride the same jeep and I just cant move my head to his direction. I cant afford to do my move for him to notice me.

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Zelmarie  says:
3 years ago

I had a crush in college we used to ride the same jeep and I just cant move my head to his direction. I cant afford to do my move for him to notice me.

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Fitter  says:
2 years ago

>Get Her To Notice You Too

oh thats easy

>Start a Conversation

and this is the main trouble for most of us as i think.

Few tips from my experience:

- don't be afraid to seem funny, stupid or smth like that. You appearence really DOESNT MATTER.

- don't be afraid to use banal phrases! Everybody wants to be get a girl with "unusual" approach, but simple standart phrases work well - at least 2 from 10 girls are easy going starting conversation from them )

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TiffanyJordan23  says:
2 years ago

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GERRAUD  says:
2 years ago

I had girl-friend atmy old scohool ,but she broke-up with because I had to move & she might be coming to my school next-year .How do I get her back?

New2this  says:
2 years ago

Well, i go to a boys school and i just came out from a coed school (Im from Sydney, Australia) and girls are a problem obviously. How can i meet new ones? or get them to notice me somehow?

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foodmagnetism  says:
2 years ago

Interesting info - could have used this in highschool

burn-fat  says:
2 years ago

One for my son

Nicolas  says:
2 years ago

This is very interesting

markion  says:
2 years ago

i reckon no means no, unless she suggests an alternative date, i don't bother trying again!

Z-Trigger42  says:
2 years ago

I Have a huge crush on this girl. She is very cute and has a locker across the from mine. Today is valentines day and school was closed. I was going to give her a card. What should i do? (Please Respond)

hotty  says:
17 months ago

This is hot

logan  says:
16 months ago

I NEED ALOT OF TIPS TO GET GIRLS TO LIKE ME. P.S. PLEASE HELP

efren  says:
15 months ago

but how about a guy who cant hear ho would he noctes she like u

mrs. nick jonas  says:
15 months ago

cool

mystery name  says:
14 months ago

i like a girl named teagan lindsday and she a girld that was my gf befor but she broke up with me but it only lasted 4 months help please

anymous  says:
12 months ago

thanks!

Love Girl  says:
11 months ago

I love this girl in my class, I'm in middle school. She says hi to me most of the time in class and starts a conversation about a comic we both enjoy. but sometimes when me and my best friend walk together the girl comes to my friend and talk......... Does this mean she doesn't like me? or what is it. and what can i do

Jason  says:
10 months ago

hi, thanks for this its really aweomse but theres something i need gigantouis help in. i love this girl in the other class (shes super hot!!!) last year we were in the same class and we were boyfriend and girlfriends but all of a sudden idk what happend and she broke up with me and now she likes another boy and i cant get her back plzzzzz help !!!!! plz i really need her in my life i totally love this girl

jtkk33  says:
10 months ago

dude jason you need to let her go okay. You bother her too much you will become creepy to everyone else because you don't know how to let go .There is plenty of other girls out thier for u mkay. go start fishing in some good catches

now its my term wish me luck!

Fyi i'm not really a fishing person it just sounded good and it worked

Andrew  says:
10 months ago

hi i need help i truly love this girl shes from switzerland and i am from india she goes to my church and really want to be with her but im so nervous and scared. What do i go i am a simple indian guy who just fell in love the first time and i need some advice to pursue her please help me.

omg  says:
9 months ago

Wow Andrew are you talking about me??? I just came accross this site and i know its you...i know your the indian at the church who always looks at me...if you wanted to date me you could've just said something but dont you know that me and your brother are already dating plus i did your dad also...

SHY  says:
8 months ago

there's this girl in my Skl we wen out for ONE DAY. She only dumped me cos i wasn't talking to her (i was shy but not anymore) now i need some advice to get her back

CAN SOMEONE RESPOND ASAP

ANON  says:
7 months ago

is there like a topic about information on how you can tell if the girl likes you or not?

go-getter  says:
7 months ago

thanks!

aowsome  says:
6 months ago

YOU WILL CHANGE MY LIFE

aussie demon  says:
6 months ago

i like this girl called catherine, im in year 8 and she's in my class and i want to get her attention, and i hav trouble goin to say somthing to her cause she hangs around her friends alot so how do i talk to her without getting embarrassed

the kid in love  says:
6 months ago

i will try this and see if shee notices me if she does i will post a new comment i will tell u how it goes.

Holy shit  says:
3 months ago

get a life. why do u sit there commenting about what u cant do when u havent even tried it.1!!!1!!!!!

DON KING  says:
3 months ago

I TOLD THE GIRL I LOVE HER SHE SAID SHE WAS FLATTERED

BUT DID NOT A RELATIONSHIP YET. DO I WAIT AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS . I CAN'T LOSE HER . WHAT DO I .

DON KING

BC!!!!  says:
3 months ago

Dudes: grow some freaking balls and be a man and just talk to her and tell her how you feel

Chicks: tell the guy how you fell cuz us guys are very confuzzled on what to do so please make it a lil easier on us

hunk  says:
2 months ago

Every time I talk to this girl gaby I feel like barfing

dude  says:
2 months ago

think about things that dont but always listen to her when she talks so u dont stand thier like a complete fool

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