How to ask a girl out
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How to ask a girl out
How to ask a girl out
Asking a girl out on a date should be easier than it actualy is for some people after all how difficult can it be to say "Would you like to go to the movies on Saturday night with me"?
Fear of rejection holds us back why? because we are men and our ego gets hurt easily, it's embarrassing and you wish that the ground would open up and swallow you whole when a girl says no. Girls just don't understand just how much effort and preparation it takes for us to ask them out, what thoughts run through our heads in the day running up to the event, it's hard work and it drains your energy mentally and physically.
Does she like me, will she say yes, what if she says no, will she laugh at me, a million scenario's run through your head you even imagine the date the will you hold hands, what will you talk about will she kiss me, will she want to see me again. Crazy thoughts what if's and buts.
Calm down, take it easy, there's no need to sweat buckets all she can say is yes I will or no I wont or words to that effect, drop dead loser is also an old favourite.
What would a girl do if she liked you?
Ask yourself the question above and then try it for yourself, if a girl likes a boy what would she do?
1) She would get her friends to find out more about you.
2) She would get her friends to ask your friends what you think about her.
3) She would get one of her friends to approach you and ask how you feel about her.
4) If a girl likes you after steps 1-3 she will either get one of her friends to ask if you would go out with her or she would come and ask you herself.
Girls do it the correct way we guys should take note.
Now you try it get your friends to do the work for you follow steps 1-3 once you have followed steps 1-3 you should know whether she likes you or not if it is yes then you should ask her out, don't ask a friend to ask her for you girls prefer the personal touch.
Knowing that she likes you should be a boost to your confidence and you should have no worries or fears when you ask her out.
FOR THE GIRLS
If a boy looks at you more than once he likes you, ask him out lol.
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If you like a girl talk to her dont tell her you wanna be friends because youll ruin the chance. If you talk to her and keep the conversation going if you dont she will think you are boring. If her friend tells you that the girl you like likes you go ask her yourself because she could be lying. Girls like it better when you ask them personal other than asking your friends to do it.
im 10 and i go to school but i asked a girl out and said no to me and told evreybody that i asked her out and then i got made fun of now i like another girl but im just afried for the same thing to happen like last time
i like this girl madison (rilly hot) and i told my freind and he told her and she said no so i still like her so what do i do, do i ask her myself?
i am 11 i am in sixth grade i like this girl but i don't know if she likes me how do i figure out if she likes me or not
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i know how you feel, i am 11 to and i like a girl named stephine orsleke, what i do is go up to her and ask her to go for a walk and be your self, at the end when she knows alot about you ask her outand if she ansors positivly, she likes you but if she anors negitivily and says ''that what this is about'' she dosent, try to keep her friends from coming because most likly her friends will try to ansor you for her, try to get a friend to keep her friends okupied and a friend to go with you if your shy, i've never tryed it so it might not work, just try it
astin just ask her out yourself dont be afrad to be maken fun of and hunter yes ask her your self, you never know what the answer will be
???????????????????????i like this girl (Tori Martin) and she is one of my good friends and next week school is out what should i do HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
im 13 and there is this girl who always helps me out when i hurt myself and i really like her but my parents don't what should i do?
All of you guys, don't be afraid, when you ask her out, ask her out somewhere private, not in front of allot of people (that will make her nervous, and she will not enjoy being around you). If she says "No", dont ask why, or start to cry, or do some other pathetic, just accept it, and walk away. And right after she says no, dont go out and ask another girl. Trust me, that will not work out well
I'm so scared to ask this girl [ AmayaS. ] out. we are friends sence for 4 years { i'm 11} and i don't want to ruin it. I need advice. help!!!!!! I check daliy:] plese help!
Shiiiiit I just started going out with this girl 2 days ago that I dont really like, but I cant dump her because I dont wanna hurt her feelings (she says she really likes me), plus one of my best friends JUST started dating one of her best friends and plus Im not 2 bright or funny or good looking or anything so I dont know if if we split up Id get a new GF. Plus the girl I really like is mega popular and really hot and I think one of my popular friends likes her a bit even though hes dating one of her best friends, plus she has been dating a guy since before the beginning of the year (not sure exactly how long). Plus this girl has a lot of friends and everyone knows were going out. Im also mega worried that she might dump me because like I said I dont like her much so like if I had a chance with a hotter girl who I like I think Id probably ditch this girl and go for the new one (I guess that makes me a shitty BF anyways).
So this is me again anyone got some suggestions as to what I should do?
burn-fat says:
2 years ago
I'll pass this on to my son