How to ask a girl to be your girlfriend

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By jimmythejock


Will You Be My Girlfriend? how to ask

You have asked her out, been on a couple of dates with her, and you have both got along fantastically you know that you really like her and you think that she feels the same way about you. Your friends have already assumed that you are boy friend/girl friend they have seen you out together laughing and joking holding hands, kissing having a great time.

Asking her to be your girlfriend shouldn't be difficult but fear of rejection is always there at the back of your mind even if you know that she is crazy about you too.


Once you have made your decision to ask her to be your girlfriend take action don't wait for the right time, you can't afford to wait too long because if you miss your chance you could lose her to someone else.

On the other hand, though don't run up to her in the middle of the street and shout out in front of all of her friends "Will You Be My Girlfriend," although it may sound romantic it would embarrass her and she probably wouldn't want to see you ever again.


Make the right time; try not to think of what you are going to say because no matter how many times you rehearse it in your head things never go according to plan. Whether you take her out for a meal, a walk in the park, or a walk along the beach

Test the water before you ask the question "I really like you a lot" is a great opener if she replies with something similar then it's the perfect time to ask the question," Will you be my girlfriend"?


Girls like a small personal token from you not something that you have run out and bought, your class ring if you have one, the chain that you wear around your neck or even the sweater that you are wearing, anything that you have on your person that you wear or use regularly. This token item is to prove your commitment to her.

If she says yes, don't jump up screaming yes you beauty! she can change her mind very quickly, give her a cuddle and kiss her to seal the deal.

Have fun.


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Ralph Deeds profile image

Ralph Deeds  says:
17 months ago

In my experience you don't have to ask. Just wait for it to happen, or not.

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jimmythejock  says:
17 months ago

I agree Ralph but sometimes girls like that commitment touch....jimmy

Kingof09  says:
16 months ago

ok ive asked her about 3 times and she says keep thinking of different ways to ask me, should i just give up?

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ytay  says:
16 months ago

hi im ty and i want to know more about asking a girl out be caus i have a problem with it

mark  says:
11 months ago

pls...........tell me more about telling a girl that i love her....

mark  says:
11 months ago

pls...........tell me more about telling a girl that i love her....

srpay  says:
11 months ago

KISS BUT

Vincent  says:
11 months ago

I liked her cos she is so nice to me n I begin to luv her but don't know hokw to tell her I LUV HER cos i'm scared I might .lose her as well as ma ally n ma luved girlfriend.

Vincent  says:
11 months ago

I liked her cos she is so nice to me n I begin to luv her but don't know hokw to tell her I LUV HER cos i'm scared I might .lose her as well as ma ally n ma luved girlfriend.

vincent  says:
11 months ago

I tell her i luv her but don't know how to tell her to be ma girlfriend cos i'm scared imight lose her at both sides.

mysterious  says:
11 months ago

I like this girl, but only one thing prevents me from asking her out. I don't have a job, I'm a full time student in college, having all my bills taken care of by my mother. sigh, it's killing me guys hahaha, cause I feel like the right time has passed.

tim  says:
11 months ago

I do not have a girlfirend

HELPER  says:
11 months ago

GALS R NOT DAT EASY AS U THINK, BUT 4RM UR ARTICLE IT IS VERY EASY AS FAR AS YOU THINK SHE FEELS THE SAME WAY ABOUT U.

hornybaby  says:
11 months ago

when u luv a gurl u should be upfront like me idc if she leaves me.....lol jk i told her i luved ur then i lost my virgenity at age 10 and im 16 and were getting maried we want kids..... HERE IS A TIP TO ASK A GURL OUT "DO U HAVE A BOYFRIEND?" "NO" "U WANT 1?" "yeah who ;likes me?" WILL U GO OUT WITH ME ...............HORNYBABY

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Paulie  says:
10 months ago

People still do that??? Way back when, a boy would ask a girl to "go steady". I don't think that happens anymore. What the problem is, is that you want to make sure she is exclusively yours. Why not take her out to a nice quiet dinner and asking her what she thinks about the two of you dating only each other? We women know from the very first how we feel about you. It doesn't take women very long. So she is ready for that question or she is not. If she hedges, she is just not that in to you. Or she may already assume you are girlfriend and boyfriend. But if a man really likes a girl he wants to know that she is not going to go out with anybody else and this is really the problem that you have.

mike  says:
10 months ago

i was with a girl for a wile and then i asked her to be my girlfriend and that little hore was just playin with me the hole time. she already had a boyfriend. trust me love sucks just hit it and quit it

Austin  says:
10 months ago

Hey, I like this girl, and she knows i like her. she goes to my school and she rides my bus(im in 9th grade, she is in 10). we have known each other for about 4-5 weeks now and try to hang out on the weekends... the problem is, i dont know how she feels about me, at all.. I am affraid if a wait much longer i will move into "friend zone" so i want to ask her how she feels about me soon but i dont know when i should.. if it is too soon.. too late... or what?!? i really like her and i dont want to screw things up by sayin/doin somthin at the wrong time.. PLEASE HELPEmail me back plzzz

Josh  says:
10 months ago

hi my name is josh what i just read was intersting but i want to know more about how to speak to a girl that i can one day get married and have children. i haven't had sex before, imagine so that it proaly feels good. i haven't ever in my life kissed a girl and having a relationship with her, whys it nerve racking when you are about to have sex and to kiss a girl.

thanks!

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Paul Edmondson  says:
10 months ago

Jimmy, I'm waiting for you to answer Josh. Tough questions:)

carlos  says:
9 months ago

this girl really likes shes told me so but she has a boyfriend how can i ask her 2 be mine

Markus  says:
8 months ago

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SO I CAN GET ONE

Markus  says:
8 months ago

THERE ARE GIRLS ARE CALLING UGLY AD I WANT GET A GIRL SO RIGHT NOW I NEED HEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP!

SO I CAN GET ONE

Cami  says:
8 months ago

As a girl i would agree with your advices. Usually we like it when the guys are sweet and sincere instead of hiding their true feelings and playing it cool all the time, so if you ask a girl and she says yes, then show that you're happy. Just take it slow though and don't be too agressive. =]

straight up game  says:
7 months ago

just ask da girl straight up ppl u want to b mah girlfriend? who cares if u get rejected........ it happens to everyone........find a way to play itoff it u do get rejected

ben  says:
7 months ago

dude, i was lookin everywhere for this. you are the only one to actually use words to discribe how to ask her to be your girlfriend and what to do after. A+ man

alex  says:
7 months ago

corina can you kiss me like you did to randy please by alex.

alex  says:
7 months ago

corina can you kiss me like you did to randy please can you pleaaaaaaaaaaaaase ...can you corina

alec  says:
6 months ago

corr

ill skillz  says:
6 months ago

im goin thru da same thing madd ppl think me nd her r goin out. we r but unofficially but all i did was ask her str8 up' do u wanna go out wit me?' if she says yes kiss her( juss go 4 it) if she says no respect her decsion nd giv it time

ETHAN JASON  says:
6 months ago

I NEED A GOOD GIRLFRIEND THAT IS NICE AND VVVVVVVVVVVVVVVEEEEEEEEEEEEEERRRRRRRRRRRRRRYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY SWEAT.

Louis  says:
5 months ago

There is this one girl that I've known for three years. As far as I know shes never had a boyfriend. Although I have never had any problems getting a date with any other girl ever when I am around this one girl I seem to immediately switch my brain off and act like a dumbass. Whenever she sees me she always smiles at me and says hi, but I dont know if it's because she likes me or if she is just being nice. Please help me!

David  says:
4 months ago

I LIKE THIS GIRL BUT I DON'T IF SHE LIKES ME. I GAVE HER A TIGGER LAST YEAR FOR CHRISTMAS AND SHE LOVED IT. I HARDLY SEE HER THIS YEAR. I'M NOT A UGLY GUY. I COME FROM A HOCKEY FAMILY. I PLAY HOCKEY 24/7

chris  says:
4 months ago

I really liked a girl and i was dating her for about 3 months but i was afraid to ask to go out with me. She was always nice with me and i knew that she also liked me. Then 1 discovered that she got a boyfriend. So when u love a girl dont wait for long to ask her to be your girlfriend or else you'll lose her! After 1 month, she broke with this boyfriend and now i'm trying to date her again

genral hoffman  says:
4 months ago

i really like this girl and i think she likes me but she is going out with my best friend and he says he relly likes her what should i do????

john  says:
3 months ago

i lik this girl and i told her i liked her but she doesn t like me and she mad at me now

HAMDA  says:
3 months ago

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Raoul  says:
3 months ago

hey i like this girl and she likes me but she's not in the same class as i am so the only time i get 2 talk 2 her is the hallways so help me figuring out when is the right time 2 ask her if she can be my girlfreind

danny  says:
2 months ago

well first of all i advise you not just to ask her to be ur girlfriend. first of all if the only time you ever see her is in class than y dont you ask her just to hang out. it doesnt have to start out as a date but you can play it from there

Austin  says:
2 months ago

im 10 and i go to school but i asked a girl out and said no to me and told evreybody that i asked her out and then i got made fun of now i like another girl but im just afried for the same thing to happen like last time

Hidetoshi  says:
2 months ago

You just gotta take it easy. Get to know her by going on dates together, it'll come naturally. You'll know if she likes you or not by the way she looks at you. If she laughs and always hang out with you. When the time is right give her a kiss:)

Michael  says:
6 weeks ago

I want to ask her to be my girlfriend but I'm nervous. We kissed once in 1st Grade but we haven't done it since. Her name is Samantha.

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