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Husband and Wife: Partners in Life

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By bingskee


In whatever undertaking, things will be easier done when you have someone by your side to help. Any activity and responsibility will be lighter and manageable if there are people who assist you. It lightens the yoke on our shoulders.

We can definitely see the importance of helping out in all aspects in life and the husband and wife relationship is no different. We can only empathize with single parents, or with the separated ones, or with divorcees.

It is not a joke to bear the responsibility of having a family. First in the list of burdens is the financial aspect. The family expenses on the basic needs should be considered and also the schooling expenses of the children.

More important than the financial aspect is the guidance, discipline and love that should be given to the children. A single parent can successfully provide the financial needs but what about the emotional and psychological needs? What about love and belonging? This cannot be fully provided when a parent is alone.

Today's tough times and situations force a single or separated or divorced parent to survive alone. There are many and varied reasons but it sure is not an easy task being a single parent. Try asking these single parents and surely they will tell that they still wish for the family to be whole. A whole and intact family is a strong foundation.

In having a family, the ones who have the greater responsibility in living for the other members are the husband and wife. The strong foundation of a family is entirely dependent on them. That is why it is no joke to enter family life because the lives of the individuals in it should not be taken for granted. One cannot just stop because they are already tired of tending to the needs of the family members.

And because it is entirely dependent on the parents, it is their obligation to help and love each other. It is truly easier to fill the material needs when the partner is there ready to be of help always. It is truly difficult to maintain the foundation of the family when alone.

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ralwus profile image

ralwus  says:
2 months ago

I would be lost without my love, my soul mate, my wife.

dohn121 profile image

dohn121  says:
2 months ago

Someday I will marry and will then be able to utilize your sage advice fully, bingskee. I've come close to marrying but realized then that I was not yet ready to take on the responsibility of becoming a good husband. Thank you for your hub.

Jess Killmenow profile image

Jess Killmenow  says:
2 months ago

What should I say? Very nicely written article with lots of good thinking. :)

bingskee profile image

bingskee  says:
2 months ago

hi, ralwus. the feeling is mutual. i'd be lost, too, without Papsie.

that is what i call responsible, dohn! a lot i know just jump into it. thanks for appreciating. :-)

thank you, jess.

Lady_E profile image

Lady_E  says:
2 months ago

Definitely partners for life. They compliment each other. I guess that's why people say "my other half" or "my significant other".

I like the pic above with you and Hubby. :)

bingskee profile image

bingskee  says:
2 months ago

very true, Lady+E. that pic is two years ago.

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