I write with a wonderful author by the name of wsp2469 who has some of the most interesting writings I have ever read. I have the pleasure of sitting with him most days of the week as we write and do other adventures on the internet.

He has recently responded to an article posted by Bredavies about the 5 most annoying things about men. I have to admit that I could not come up with anything to say in response to the one subject that had to do with the man keeping it in his pants or just having some lovin' time. I hope you will enjoy my response to the other issues as I state my opinion openly and honestly taking no sides.

I agree that men do some annoying things. It was just this morning that my daughter (who is almost seventeen) asked me if I knew that Queen Latifa was gay. She continued to say, "why are are the good females gay"? My response was "because men are @ssoles". Most annoying things are pretty easy to to recognize right off the bat. I have not read your article yet but look forward to reading and responding as I go along.

This would be his "goo-goo" as my friend calls it. It's hot, sweaty and needs to be adjusted because of this. Then again, there is the just plain boredom they experience and the first mindless thing to do as they are glued to the boob tube is put their hand down their pants. Remember the movie "What Happens In Vegas"? The male species takes the bowl of popcorn and dumps it down his sweat pants and mind you I am almost certain that he has on nothing else. Her response was something like that's what I want was ball sweat popcorn as he proceeded to eat it without blinking an eye. This movie reveals in perfect clarity the issues we females have with the males. It may be very funny but let's face it, it is true.

Do we compliment them on the fact that they have this ability and we are the ones who have yet to develop this talent? I think not and neither are they. Truth is, women have to thing and consider so many issues in order to make the right decision or to act upon something. Men just like to minimize everything into a nothingness and tell us that we are thinking to hard or are just mistaken when in our hearts we know we are right. It's not that we get the joy of being right but hell, it's not our fault we keep our brains on and they don't. Usually things prove themselves and then I believe we go back to the grunt and groan in response. I have a perfect example of what I call "you just don't get it". I have a friend that I wright with almost everyday and we instant message each other each day when he is at his home and not mine. I believe when he or I sign into messenger and decide to send a message we click on the link or name we have for them. I had different names I was using but one was just my first name, the second was based on my maiden name and the last was based on my married (but divorcing) name. You would think that he would be used to clicking on the one that we talk on everyday but this particular day he decided to click on another one. The problem with this is that I was upset that he said we would talk later whether or not he would be coming over later. I did not get the messages because they went to a site I have not used in months. I in return sent an text message and he did not understand my anger as he messaged me. Well after discovering the error of his way, it took much too much time to just get him to see my point of view. If we talk here everyday, why would you click on something else.? Talk about shut down!

In all fairness I have to say, why are we (females) entitled to have the men put the seat down when we don't pee and put it up for them? Is it not a facility that belongs to both sexes? What I practice in my home is once you use the facility put the whole lid down. The next person can lift up one or two lids depending on who is using it. When finished, put it down all the way. This is something that is easy to get used to.  If you ever watched either Oprah or one of those ladies and their guest talk about the bacteria that flies through the air when you flush you would know that if your toothbrush is on the counter, forget it, it is contaminated. I have no problem remembering to close the whole thing down. It is the fair thing to do on both parties part.