I want my ex back again. Just maybe, my ex wants me back too. This is a very common question to ask yourself when relationships breakup. How many times have we thought "Does my ex want me back?" All the time hoping that the answer is, "yes!"

Here are some things that need to be looked at whenever you try deciding whether or not your ex wants you back. Realistically, the first thing to consider is, do you really want your ex back? There was a reason for your break up, but if the time since your break up has made it any easier for you to think about you and your ex, and you really do want to get your ex back, then go for it, and if your ex wants you back as well, your onto a winner.

To help you decide if your ex wants you back or not, I've jotted down a few signs for you to look out for.

1. How often does your try and contact you? If your ex is contacting you all the time, then things look good.

However, you might want to consider exactly what they are using as a pretext for calling you. Just as an example, if your ex has a pressing need for some information from you and you are not giving them what they want, then you cannot count these types of contact. On the other hand, if they are contacting you without any major reason to do so, then these types of contact are much better, especially if each contact is for a reasonable length of time. You will have to decide.

2. Your ex seems to "accidentally" turn up in the same places you are at. Did they know or guess that you would be there? Again, you will have to judge.

3. Is your ex dating someone else? If not, there is a good chance that they have a lot of time on their hands to think. Guess what will be taking up their thoughts, or at least a good portion of them? That's right, you or your relationship. Only you can tell what they will be thinking about you. Did you have a good relationship with your ex before <b>your break up? if you did, then they will probably be missing you a lot.

4. The reverse can also be true, if your ex is going out a lot, especially if they are dating a lot of different people, then they are most likely trying to be trying to avoid their thoughts of you and your relationship together. This means that they still have strong feelings for you.

I hope these few signs have helped you, if you need some signs to look out for, try this article signs my ex wants me back. A break up is a painful episode in your life, and if you can resolve your differences, you can end up with a more loving and stronger relationship. You can find some more information at the Relationship Fix blog, it may help you get your ex back.