I am _______ years old
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For everyone who took the time to respond to my previous hub, thank you! It actually made me feel much better about myself at a time when I was getting completely fed up with comments about my age!
Now, maybe its because I work at a University, maybe its because I try to stay in shape, but for whatever reason, people are always mistaking me for someone much younger than I am. I am 26 years old (so some of you were right on with your guess!). I love my age, & in fact, I think I'm one of the rare individuals who actually enjoys getting older. I love what I've learned, what I've accomplished, where I've been, and who I've become. That said, when people are constantly mistaking you for a high schooler or a college student, all those accomplishments seem moot.
Here are the comments I have gotten recently:
"Well, you look so young that some of the leaders [of a camp going on on-campus] thought you may have been one of the students (i.e. high school students), so we wanted to give you a name badge so they wouldn't get confused."
"So...what's your major, when do you graduate?"
"You're the manager? You look so young!"
"Can I talk to the manager? You are? Well, is there someone...else...I can talk to? No? There's no one older?" (Seriously, I did get this comment, not as recently as the others, but while I was the Park & Recreation Supervisor for a city, managing 4 departments and 35 people).
"What are you going to do when you get out of school?"
"You're NOT a student?!? I would have sworn..."
Please, don't condescend to me by saying "most people would love to hear those comments," or, "just wait till you're older & you'll appreciate hearing those things." That very well may be, I don't know, but for now, I can't stand it. I don't think I would care so much if I were fresh out of college, or if I hadn't had all the life experience I've already had, but the fact is, I've been out of school for five years, I've been in management for 4 years, I've managed teams of 50 people & have been promoted multiple times in the various positions I've held. I've owned two houses and I've been married for five years. I've moved cross-country twice. I am not a high school or college student, & telling me I look young just seems to cheapen the life I've already lived and verify that your first impression of me is of someone who couldn't possibly be a capable, take-charge adult. Please don't do that to me.
[Sorry for the rant there at the end, it wasn't directed to anyone reading this hub, just kinda what I feel whenever someone says something to me.]
Anyway...that's all.
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P.S...I got it right...woweee usually am not good with guessing ages..humm better then I think huh? That was a surprise...G-Ma :o) hugs
I know! When I saw 26 I was like, "dang! she got it!" You're the only one, too, who hit the nail on the head.
Ha, I know what you mean about people underestimating you b/c of looking young. I get the "You're not a college student?!" all the time too. But sometimes it works in my favor b/c I get student discounts. :)
Ha, way to work it to your advantage! I guess I should try that more often.
I think you look youthful, beautiful and smart. ~Dottie~














G-Ma Johnson says:
17 months ago
Well it's ok sweetie...you can rant all you want..I understand how you feel..you are very pretty and very young looking..which is very nice and all but so many people judge other's by the way they look...dress...speak...act... etc.."yOu can't judge a book by it's cover"
Many times it may be from people who are envious of all you have and how good you look...as I look back on my pictures from the past I wish I had felt so good about myself...I looked really good but hated myself...then as I a got ummm...a bit older and filled out ..ssshhh..and liked myself..it seemed too late..
Time changes everything...our thoughts...our wishes...our love...our everyday way of life...circumstances change things all the time and how we deal with them...It really doesn't matter how you look...as long as you like yourself...are honest...and have God in your heart...So you just keep up the good work and wish them all a good day...and go on your sweet caring way....G-Ma :o) hugs