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I gave a friend a valuable present and nopw she doesn't even talk to me. Should I ask her to give it back?

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By Scarletseas


Give an expensive gift but nothing happen?

So , you give your friend an expensive gift but she did not want to talk to you?

I wonder why after you give her a gift , don't even like to talk to you?

She should have a reason of doing it. She cannot just accept your gift and then planned not to talk to you personally. So what do you think the reason why she won't to talk to you?

And why did you give her an expensive gift? Is she your best friend or a rival?

If I am your friend and then you just give me an expensive gift , I will be in heaven for sure, that if you did not made me mad before giving the gift.

Taking the gift back will depends on your relationship with this person. Is she your best friend or you just want to make the things work out between her?

If she was your special someone and tried to hide from you after getting your gift then I would say , it is really up to you. I will probably get it back when I am so mad of this person because she is trying to stay away from me. And that only happen for a relationship like girlfriend or boyfriend.

If you do not know the reason yet why your friend is not talking to you then it would be nice to find out before demanding the return for the gift.

Sometimes it is very important to have an open communication and find out the problems before rushing our own decision.

At one time , I give a gift and then after that I just never heard anything from this person. So I really wonder what happen and I just keep quiet about it. Until I meet this person again and believed me this friend of mine never even mention about the gift I give to her/him. Seems I never give anything to her/him and then I just did not ask about it.

So until now, I really wonder what she/he did to the gift I give. This person won't talk to me much but if she/he will won't mention about the gift. So I do not know really. But before I send it to her/him I told her/him that if she/he do not like it just return it to me so that I can get a refund for it.

I went to her/his house one time and I could not find the gift I sent , so I just bury it in my memory. No thank you in return and just a total nothing.

So in your case ,if this woman is your girlfriend and you bought an expensive gift but then she did not respond to you , then this a just a total scam. She pretend she likes you and then when you give her an expensive gift she just disappear or do not want to talk to you in any way.

I would say, that I would love to get the gift back if she is just trying to scam you about expensive things.

But you know the person very well I hope so , you decide if you want to get it back or not. In my case , if this woman won't talk to me after I give a her a valuable gift then I would like to get it back , knowing that she is just playing around with my heart or something like that.

Take it back if you can!!! But of course , you have to know first the reason behind the bad communication!!!

Is she trying to talk to you but then you are not available or you are the only one who always chasing her to talk?

You are the only "Judge" about this situation.

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