The way I have been successful has been with Classmates.com You must start with your own profile and I would suggest adding an old pic of yourself in the Then section, I don't recomend a Yearbook picture. You can then add an album of recent pictures of your success if you like to brag or your beautiful and well adjusted family. There are other similar sites that will not charge you to add info but they will charge you if you want to answer messages or a bulletin board. Search your classmates by the years you attended and be sure of marital status. I am stillvery careful for I am single and always had a problem contacting old female friends.

What seems to work for a younger crowd is the easiest and fastest profile social web page; the king of emo pics, the master ad carrier and funnest profile container in the world, I think...

My space for the ones who have an extremely busy professional life and not much time to speed dial their friends on the cell phone, you can actually mass contact your pals in bulk with lovely glittery attachements. The thing about searching for an old flame or school mate is that you must narrow your search by country state and or zip code in the case of the States. Facebook started as strictly a college alumni contact forum but has evolved since then.