It is ridiculous to actually say that God purposefully sends anyone to hell.  Our creator in no stretch of the imagination points a finger at a soul and says, “Off to hell with you, I don’t like you sinner!”  It is also absurd to think that God, who does in fact love, intentionally sends anyone to hell after they have been judged.  God does not want anyone to go to hell, that is not an opinion that is a fact.

God loves everyone and every living thing, no matter how badly God is treated, no matter how many times he is disappointed.  Think of David and his unfortunate sin, or how about the people that God sent Moses to save, how they constantly chastise him over and over. The Lord still loved and provided, he may have gotten upset but love still prevailed.

It is not God who sends someone to hell it is themselves; believe it or not the hardest thing for people to do is to forgive themselves, even after they have been saved.  It is a hard notion to comprehend, “All I have to do is ask for forgiveness and I can go to heaven” in a nutshell that is it.  The Devil will keep seeds of doubt locked in the brain and if you refuse to keep nourishing the spirit through prayer and the word, those seeds will take root, and once again a soul is falling away from the Lord into the red-zone.

God asks for attention, he gives us the tools; it is ultimately up to the person to follow them and use them.  The Lord has given everyone the tools and the key to heaven because he loves us, to prevent anyone to go to hell.  The murderer that has asked for forgiveness and believes has a better chance of going to heaven then the kind person who doubts.

The trinity is set-up to give us simple step-by-step instructions and guidance to go to heaven.  The instruction given to us from the Father, the Son, and the Holy Ghost is a “Dummy’s Guide to Heaven” it is easy to follow!  It is the Devil that makes it hard on this earth, he wants you, and he will try with all his power to claim you.

 “So if he loves us so much why doesn’t he intervene?” he does.  God always gets involved but it is usually someone’s free will that denies the help.  God will not shoot lightning down on your attackers, just the same as he will not shoot you with lightning when you are gossiping.  God has a plan for every single soul and every action we perform has already been determined, the only thing not determined is where your heart will be when it is your time.

Lets say that there is a pool that people get into that sustains life because of the purity of the water.  Let’s also say that everyone before they get in is covered with mud so they are given tickets to take a shower.  Before they can get in to the pool they must be clean to prevent poison from polluting the water.  There is an individual that has plenty of time to get in the shower and is given plenty of tickets to take as many showers as he wants but refuses, and now he/she’s time to get in the pool has come.  Now the creator of the pool, as much as he hates it, and all the tears he is shedding, has no choice but to send this person to death, “Why?” you ask, because he would have polluted the pool and killed everyone in the pure water; the people who followed the simple instruction of jumping in the shower to clean themselves off. 

The above metaphor is just a quick idea of what God is going through it is not his choice to send someone to hell.  It is merely there choice, and because of the way God has created everything, his will must be done to maintain all he has created and planned.