Although it is good to be attracted to someone and we are always consorting into someone who establishes us these 'feelings', the trouble is that most people mix up attraction for emotion. Just because someone is hot to you does not imply that you have feelings for them. You are merely attracted to them. That is infatuation.

       True love, on the other hand, is a state of being that befalls over time. Emotions and feelings happen as a consequence of getting to recognize someone, period! There is no 'love at first glance' because nobody falls in love with someone they do not know. Over time you seek the similarities in a person and you constitute a bond over the things you have in common. This makes you congenial and trust is established because you know that they will make a analogous decision to yours in whatever applied situation. You finally concentrate your life around this person and your decisions in life will always regard this person as well as, or even before you.

       Infatuation is when you care a person for their looks not actually knowing them. But whenever you get to acknowledge more about them, you may or may not fall in love with them. By nature, people seldom focus on the sad aspects of the stories. They entirely consider the love, the hopeful, glorious, burning love at the center of the story. They conveniently leave the endings.

       Take "Romeo and Juliet." Their kinship is thrilling. But it doesn't endure more than a few days and then they're dead. Or "Somewhere in Time," that multi-hankie romance with Jane Seymour and Christopher Reeve. Their relationship lived a little longer than Romeo and Juliet's, but does it do them any good? Hardly. They end up stranded in different centuries.