Usually writing ideas can come from glancing through topics of a magazine or even from television shows. " Is Sex the Same for Men and Women," is derived from glancing through none other than the renown Cosmopolitan magazine for women. Although it is suspect that men have thumbed through the pages hoping to get a glimpse of more of the beautiful women found on the covers.

Cosmopolitan employ great graphics with its literary interpretations. There are articles of testimonials of men referring to themselves quite graphically. If there was a naked woman on the cover, the clerk at the local 7-11 would have to place the magazine behind the counter away from innocent eyes. The woman on this particular cover had on a very low cut black halter dress with long flowing wind blown brown blonde streaked hair. Cosmospolitan is careful to put only classy looking women on the cover when after reading the contents you would wonder why didn't the magazine put a bustier woman on the cover. So the cover aptly deceived the literary content contained on the pages of the magazine.

The men who were interviewed as expected went into great detail about the different sex positions that allowed them the most pleasure. Only one comment from a woman came from the myriad of men opinions on this particular subject. After the men's testimonials of which the first name and age was presented, a psychologist went into further detail on how to make the aforementioned sexual positions even more pleasure grabbing.

For the most part, the women did not have much to say as mentioned. Cosmopolitan seem to be an insructional guide so women were not expected to say that much. The women readers for the most part were probably skipping the testimonials of the men as the psychologist whose advice was printed in red ink, detailed the sex moves more so than the men.

The reader began to wonder had the psychologist experimented on all the information provided. After reading the two page article in Cosmopolitan, the women were supposed to remember the testimonials along with the sidebars of the psychologist to please and pleasure her man. Women learned from the Cosmopolitan article certain techniques such as lying full length on the back of their man afterward because of the relaxation effect. The testimonial of one man must apply to the entire population as most people think khat a snooze is the order of the evening after engaging in sex.

What else did the women learn about  the difference in sexual encounters of men and women? These testimonials were not test cases as a sexual institution. These testimonials must have been the real deal because of the psychologist sidebars.Women learned that men are very sensitive after sex and should leave well enough alone. So guys, if any other sexual moves is wanted the advice columnist says that you are just too sensitive to proceed again, at least right away.

The difference of sex between men and women is that the women seem to be the ones that should understand the physiology of the male physical makeup. Maybe it is because men usually have the last word in these type of stutations, literally. After reading the Cosmopolitan article, this is what is surmised.

Also women be warned that men do not like surprises and like a slow build up to be pleased sexually. And to think that all most women want is a few minutes of foreplay. Women needs according to the Cosmopolitan testimonials to take things slow and to build her man up to heightened mountains of pleasures away from the speed zone. Don't blame the women who read the testimonials and decided to make good use of it in the bedroom, blame their actions on the Cosmopolitan psychologist sidebars.