Is jealousy a part of love and how do you overcome it?
55View why you are jealous? What are you missing that is creating you jealous?
Here is the chronicle of a lady being envious.
She and her boyfriend have been going steady for almost a year and a half now ... in the beginning it was perfect. They were detached to do whatsoever they desired with their acquaintances, however now the girl become psycho and don't allow her boyfriend act anything. It is really bothersome to her part and require to know how to cease being such a psycho jealous girlfriend.
Therefore I told her that being a green eyed monster is not beneficial for a relationship, well to bear too much of it. Merely keep it to a little bit. Having it most probably signifies you do love him, but at the same time perhaps a bit insecure about one thing or another, possibly some of his friend, (female), you may think he might / will go off with one of them. If he genuinely loves you, he won't. Relationship must have trust, faith and honor for each other to work decently, without one of these it won't work. You must attempt and lay yourself at ease and have a bit more trust or faith in him. After all, if you continue displaying too much jealousy it may actually force him away...
I ask her again, what are you experiencing when he goes out? Are you afraid that he is going to fall for someone else? Does he act anything that causes you feel jealous? If there is anything you need to convey that to your boyfriend soon. Then you have to learn to let him go. Allow him go out...he needs to be able to experience that you trust him. He's a guy so he probably feeling like he is on a dog's tether with out any slack. His friends are probably establishing him grief about this too.
You have to acknowledge that this is not normal conduct in a relationship. If you uphold to control this relationship like this he is going to get exhausted and actually will leave you...but not because of some other girl...he will leave because he can't breathe and you are being authoritarian. If you are still having troubles then I would suggest talking to a counselor or therapist because if you don't fix this issue then you may come up this an issue with whosoever you date.
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Gin Delloway says:
9 months ago
ooo!! I completely agree with you.. I like freedom very much and when somebody tries to say what I MUST do I become angry!! the same is in love.. so we all should be attentive and careful in order not to restrict freedom of our partner!