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Learn The Tricks On How To Make Your Ex Jealous

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By daniel dalton


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You Can Have Someone Other Than Your Ex

Make your ex jealous by being happy after a tragic breakup. Don't make emotional trauma ruin you and get your life back on track!
Make your ex jealous by being happy after a tragic breakup. Don't make emotional trauma ruin you and get your life back on track!

Individuals handle break ups differently. If ever you decide to make an ex jealous, make sure you are being rational and clear-headed about it. Do not allow your emotions to come in the way. Below you will find several techniques that may just prove to be helpful in making your ex jealous.

Keep Your Distance

The first step is to cut communication. Avoid making phone calls, sending text messages or e-mails, no chatting and no visits. Give both yourselves some time to process and to let your situation sink in; at the same time, learn to get over bitter feelings if there are any.

After then, after several weeks for example, you may invite him or her for a drink or lunch. Assure your ex that you only want to spend a few moments of friendly and courteous discussion and that you are not about to go out on a date.

By the time you will meet to catch up on things, you can bring a little something. It may be small but with great sentimental value. Yet, not the kind that will bring up romantic memories, instead, just a little something that serves as a reminder of your friendship or of all the fun times you had together. Your aim here is to remain subtle as you try to make your ex miss you.

Leave the Past behind

As you spend another time together as friends, ascertain you two are enjoying together. Show him or her that you are having such a wonderful time. Never bring up any emotional issues regarding your break up or about what happened between you two. You are likely to make your ex feels jealous if he or she sees that you are content and stable with your life, as this is what it appears to be.

End up your meeting with a non-committal attitude. Never make any commitments or promises to see each other again. If your ex asks for it, just be polite but do not commit. You can say "maybe" or ""not sure."

The Green Eyed Monster

As a follow-up step considering you already had your meeting after the break up, let your ex see you in the company of another man or woman. Permit yourself the chance to be with someone else particularly on the same date and venue wherein you know your ex will be there. Seeing you with someone else will sure make him or her feel completely jealous.

Another method is to spend some time with somebody whom your ex knows but not really close with. An acquaintance for example. Do not spend time with someone whom he or she is very close with, otherwise your ex will feel betrayed and feeling such will not make an ex jealous, but angry and piss off instead.

Spending time with other people does not mean that you jump into another relationship immediately. You may date around but again, never commit and do not also pretend that you are into a brand new relationship when in fact, you are not. Just knowing and seeing you having fun with your being "free" is enough to make your ex jealous and perhaps will drive him or her crazy. Isn't this what you want to happen?

Laughter is the Best Medicine

Moreover, every time you see your ex nearby, laugh considerably. Show him or her that you are extremely happy. Project a different kind of confidence that you never showed before. But always remember not to act or appear that you are too easy to get. Play it cool and confidently.

Happy Go Lucky

Also, make it a point to accomplish something positive. Focus on your work and be better at it. Be successful in other aspects especially those which mean so much to you. Upon knowing this, your ex will be happy for you while at the same time, jealous because he or she is not at your side to share your triumphs with you.

However you want to make an ex jealous, do not try anything foolish such as a one-night stand. Never try something that is off the hook or can possibly yield long term damages and lifetime regrets. You may make your ex jealous, but only to the point where no one is hurt and will be hurt on the process, yourself especially.



Smile and Make Them Jealous!

Learn to smile despite what you feel inside. You can find relief in the breakup blues.
Learn to smile despite what you feel inside. You can find relief in the breakup blues.

Jealousy - Does Your Ex Want You Back Now?

If your tactics have worked than you might have an option to get them back. Is your ex sending you hints that she might want you back? Does it seem that she is interested in spending some time with you?Are you two still having some attraction with each other? It's perfectly okay to be hopeful that there is a chance but you need to have a clear signal so you don't embarrass yourself.Are you pondering "Does she want me back?" This article will go over some things you have to look out for.

Your Best Option

These are common signs that your ex might want you back.But even though you do have a second chance, you should still be wary and not rush into getting back with your ex.The best strategy is to moderately play a little bit hard to get, which will help build up desirability for you ex .If you rush into things, it will most likely result in your ex backing away from you.Odds are that playing hard to get in the first place, has caused your ex to start wanting you back again.

A Glimmer of Hope

After a breakup its perfectly normal for both people to still have feeling of missing each other. You can also share the same feeling of wanting to get back together.These feelings happen most frequently with couples who have had a connection of a year of longer.Your ex is missing you because of all the joyful and memorable memories you have made together as a couple.However, there's always a little bit other feelings that are involved, like past mistake and regrets.If you are thinking about getting your ex back, then more than likely she is thinking the same exact thing.

A Word of Caution

What you have to remember is that sometimes after a breakup, your ex might be showing interest just to play games.They may seem to be sincere and try to catch your attention, but it could just be a silly game, without sincerely wanting you back.You have to be very sure about your ex's intentions because she may be passing the time with you while she is waiting for another guy to come her way. And to top it all, your ex may see this as a chance to get revenge for some perceived wrong mistake of the past.This is the main reason why guy's should be careful when their ex hints at getting back together after a break up.

You may find yourself continually asking "does my ex want me back?" But you must be sure that you get a better grip on the situation before you act.Playing hard to get is the best approach since you will be able to protect your feelings and not get hurt if your ex is not sincere .

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daniel dalton  says:
4 months ago

@ NNathanielStock

Thanks so much for your comments. I don't wish for anyone to play games with people's emotions but this hub was made from my own personal journey and hopefully might help someone out there.

I agree that this is a bit childish, but on a personal note, most of these tips are part of hte process of trying to recoup own own happiness WITHOUT the ex.

For example, no contact rule does help control urges to communicate with your ex. This also can help avoid the "cyberstalking" issue, that I and others can avoid.

Also, I suggest trying to stay positive despite what you are feeling. There will come a point when you no longer have to desire to make your ex jealous and can be free to find happiness from within.

NNathanielStock  says:
4 months ago

I think its childish to make your ex jealous remember it could be yourself the next time, so would you want this done to yourself.

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